Best James Sumner Podcasts (2025)

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In Bed With VACAYA CEO Randle Roper: Redefining Queer Travel, One Voyage at a Time 31:01

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2M ago31:01

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What if queer travel could be more than parties and pool floats? In this week’s In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, we’re literally in bed with Randle Roper, CEO and co-founder of VACAYA — the world’s first large-scale LGBTQ+ vacation company built on radical inclusivity. 🌈 From all-gay cruises to resort takeovers in Puerto Vallarta, Randle shares how VACA…

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Blayne It On Us: Live Confessions from the Queer Chaos 21:38

2M ago21:38

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What happens when your ex keeps sending you money, your boyfriend disappears into afterparties, or your “open” relationship starts feeling more like an Olympic event in emotional regulation? This week, we’re diving into five confessions that live at the messy, magnetic intersection of ego, intimacy, and queer identity. In this episode of Blayne It …

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Jealousy, Thirds & the Open Relationship Hangover | Blayne It On Us 13:55

3M ago13:55

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This week on we have a full episode of Blayne It On Us, where we read your confessions on are and give our take on it. We had lots of submissions this time, and we picked 4. We’re diving deep into the messy, magnetic, and totally relatable world of jealousy and open love. From silent resentment to throuple drama, we are breaking down listener confe…

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James Ash: Rising OnlyFans Star with Parents Who Support His Career 39:15

3M ago39:15

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What does it mean to come out, build a community, and launch a porn career at 21 in 2025? In this episode, we sit down with James Ash, one of the newest young voices in queer adult entertainment, to talk about growing up in London, moving to Australia, and what Gen Z is doing differently in porn. We compare our own coming out journeys to his, swap …

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Growing Apart: Moving On from Friendships in Your 30s 40:33

3M ago40:33

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In this raw and hopeful episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne dive into the reality of friendships shifting in your 30s. From recognizing when friends no longer fit the life you’re building, to spotting signs it’s time to move on, they explore grief, growth, and gaining clarity. With a mix of humor and honesty, they share personal stories, couple banter…

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Game Day Love: Football, Relationships & Confessions | Blayne It On Us 38:44

4M ago38:44

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It’s football season, and in this episode of In Bed with Koaty & Sumner we talk about what the game means for our relationship. 🏈 Koaty grew up surrounded by football—at home, at Penn State, and while living in Philadelphia—while Sumner wasn’t really exposed to it much at all. Over time, he’s become a fan through Koaty’s love for the sport. We shar…

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Launching Our New Segment: “Blayne It On Us” | Queer Relationship, Sex & Friendship Advice 20:43

5M ago20:43

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Koaty and Sumner Blayne are taking In Bed With Koaty and Sumner overseas—podcasting from a bed in Japan while Koaty’s on a work trip. After a quick life update, we debut our brand-new segment, Blayne It On Us, where listeners send anonymous confessions and questions about relationships, sex, friendship, money, and other gay topics. We respond with …

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Beyond the Bedroom: How Sex Toys Deepened Our Relationship 31:05

5M ago31:05

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This week, we’re diving deep—literally and emotionally. Koaty and Sumner open up about how adult toys transformed our sex life and brought us closer as a couple. From our first unrealistic dildo to designing our very own double penetration mold with Mr. Hankey’s Toys, this episode is all about pleasure, trust, and play. We’re talking: Why toys aren…

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Why Gay Men Feel Disconnected—And How to Fix It (w/ Dr. Hector) 55:52

5M ago55:52

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In this special “first-in-bed” episode, Koaty & Sumner welcome their first actual in-bed guest: psychiatrist, entrepreneur, and emotional edge-walker Dr. Hector. Together, they get real about why so many gay men struggle to feel emotionally connected—even in hyper-social, hyper-sexual spaces. From intimacy issues to trauma loops, hookup culture to …

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What is sex therapy with Dr. Chris Donaghue, author of Rebel Love 46:47

6M ago46:47

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This week, we’re in bed with the one and only Dr. Chris Donaghue—sex therapist, author, and queer truth-teller behind the book Rebel Love. We dive deep into the messy beauty of queer intimacy, ethical sex, and rewriting every outdated rule we’ve been told about love and relationships. From emotional differentiation to kinky exploration, Dr. Chris h…

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Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett 54:19

6M ago54:19

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We’re joined by therapist and author Tom Bruett, whose book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men has genuinely impacted our relationship. In this honest and vulnerable conversation, we dive deep into the two stages that rocked us the most: Differentiation and Exploration. We talk about what it really means to stay emotionally connected while be…

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Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties 40:54

6M ago40:54

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In this vulnerable and validating episode, Koaty shares the emotional journey behind cutting off his father—and the years of narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and betrayal that led up to it. We explore how hard it can be to draw boundaries with a parent, especially when manipulation is masked as love. From financial deception to emotional abuse, …

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Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay 53:09

7M ago53:09

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From church pews to OnlyFans views. In this episode, Sumner opens up about growing up Mormon—from blessing sacrament trays as a teenager to being interrogated by bishops about masturbation (yep, really). Koaty plays Mormon Mythbusters and finds out just how weird—and wildly repressive—Sumner’s childhood really was. We get into sex shame, secret Mor…

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The ICCAs, The Trophy, and The Trap of Comparison 29:38

7M ago29:38

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"Hey!!! We just got back from Puerto Vallarta, where we were nominated for three awards at the very first International Content Creator Awards (aka the ICCAs)… and we took home Best Podcast! 🏆 In this episode, we’re sharing all the highlights: from the content house vibes to the red carpet feels, and what it meant to be surrounded by so many creato…

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Do We Like It Tight or Loose? A Gay Fashion + Fetish Showdown 35:45

7M ago35:45

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Skinny jeans are out. Baggy cargos are in. Harnesses? Always timeless. In this episode, Sumner & Koaty Blayne dive headfirst into the messy, sexy, and sometimes downright busted world of gay men’s fashion. From growing up in skin-tight clubwear to navigating the oversized streetwear takeover, they spill all the tea. Become a supporter of this podca…

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We can’t circuit like we used to…and that’s ok! 37:00

8M ago37:00

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their full journey through circuit party culture—from wild weekends, outfit changes, and hookup chaos to burnout, boundaries, and slowing the hell down. We reflect on how the circuit brought us together, tested our relationship, boosted our OnlyFans, and eventually wore us out. We’re not anti-p…

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Kink 101: :Learning To Be Open-Minded 46:12

8M ago46:12

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their evolving relationship with kink, not as experts or full-time fetish freaks, but as a couple learning to be more curious, more communicative, and way less judgmental. We explore how getting older has made us more open to trying things we once avoided, and how shame can sneak into the bedro…

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AI & The Future of Sex: Are Robots Replacing Romance? 27:24

10M ago27:24

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In this spicy and thought-provoking episode of In Bed with Koaty and Sumner, we’re diving into the wild world of AI, sexbots, and the future of intimacy. As technology advances, virtual partners and hyper-realistic sex dolls are shaking up relationships—so where do we draw the line? We explore whether AI companions are enhancing or replacing real h…

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11 Collabs in 7 Days, Koatys First Content House! 26:17

10M ago26:17

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Season 2 of In Bed with Koaty & Sum kicks off with a bang! We’re diving into one of the wildest, most productive weeks Koaty has ever had! For seven days leading up to the GAYVN Awards in Las Vegas, he stayed in a content house with some of the biggest OnlyFans creators—all set up by his agent. His goal? To film 11 collabs. But, of course, things d…

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Announcement: 2024 Holiday Update from Rusty Towers 3:26

1y ago3:26

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Holiday announcement from CEO Alexander J Newall wrapping up an exciting 2024 ahead of an exciting 2025! We hope you have an excellent New Year! Transcript Links: Merch masterlist: www.rustyquill.com/support Jon and Martin perfume: https://sucreabeille.com/collections/all/products/jon-and-martin Ex Altiora perfume: https://sucreabeille.com/products…

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Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship 17:03

1y ago17:03

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In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need it, the highs and lows of our sex drives, and how we’ve learned to balance and meet each other’s needs. We also get real about the challenges—what happens when one of us feels like it’s not enough or w…

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Bottoming Should Be Fun 21:19

1y ago21:19

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On this episode, the couple dives deep into the art of maximizing your experience as a bottom. From preparation tips and mindset shifts to their favorite techniques for enhancing pleasure, they share honest, uncensored advice based on their own experiences. They also discuss how communication, trust, and self-awareness can elevate your confidence i…

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How Doing SeanCody Affected Our Relationship 28:59

1y ago28:59

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner dive into the complexities of life as a gay couple in the spotlight. They discuss navigating the highs and lows of being a social media duo, their experiences filming threesomes and exploring studio adult content with SeanCody, and the challenges of balancing personal and professional dynamics. Reflecting on their …

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Erectile Dysfunction: Myths, Causes & Real Talk on Aging & Intimacy 29:47

1y ago29:47

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Hey everyone, it’s Koaty and Sumner, and on this episode, we’re getting real (and a little cheeky) about something that affects way more people than you’d think: erectile dysfunction! We’re diving into ED myths, true-or-false games, and some fun facts that you probably haven’t heard before. Whether you’re curious, concerned, or just here for the la…

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How We Chose the Perfect Wedding Venue 34:59

1y ago34:59

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We are beyond excited to share that we’ve officially chosen Villa de Amore as the perfect venue for our wedding! In this video, we’re taking you inside our wedding planning process as a gay couple, sharing all the details about why this venue spoke to us and how we’re organizing every step to create our dream LGBTQ+ wedding. If you’re looking for w…

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Trust Boundaries and Freedom, Why we Gave Up on Monogamy 30:59

1y ago30:59

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We’re Koaty and Sumner Blayne, a gay couple engaged and building our dream life together. In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most frequently asked questions we get—how do we make an ‘open-ish’ relationship work? For us, the answer is simple: we’re emotionally monogamous but sexually open. We’ve figured out how to maintain deep love and t…

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DeBunking Stigmas About Gay Porn Stars 12:49

1y ago12:49

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In this episode, we’re diving into some of the biggest stigmas surrounding the porn industry that we’ve faced personally. There’s a lot of misunderstanding and judgment out there, and we want to set the record straight. From misconceptions about relationships and intimacy to the stereotypes people still cling to, we’re here to share our experiences…

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Inside Open Relationships: Gay vs. Straight in the Adult Industry – Real Talk with Kazumi & Reggie 36:52

1y ago36:52

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In this episode, Koaty and Sumner sit down with Kazumi and her boyfriend Reggie to dive deep into the dynamics of open relationships, comparing the experiences of gay vs straight couples. We explore how navigating an open relationship intersects with working in the adult content industry, sharing our own stories and tips on maintaining trust, bound…

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Hooking up with a 3rd vs a Couple, Jealousy Vs Envy 10:11

1+ y ago10:11

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In this episode, we dive into the fun and sometimes complex dynamics of our open relationship, sharing whether we prefer hooking up with a third person or exploring with other couples. While bringing others into our relationship has always been part of the excitement, we reveal our personal preferences and how they shape our experiences together. U…

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Dealing with Performance Anxiety in the Bedroom 12:31

1+ y ago12:31

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In this episode, we open up about our own experiences with performance anxiety in the bedroom, especially during those one-night stands and small flings from our past. We've both felt the pressure to perform, and we think it's time to normalize talking about it. By sharing these moments, we want to show that performance anxiety is more common than …

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Backstage #20 - Final Thoughts 48:14

2y ago48:14

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This week we wrap up with some last thoughts from David and Amani! Content Notes: Spoilers for Cry Havoc! Ask Questions Later SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring David K Barnes, Amani Zardoe, and Lowri Ann Davies Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann Davies Sound De…

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Backstage! #19 - The Proscriptions 31:04

2y ago31:04

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This week we have a final chat with Dr. Emma Southon about what actually happened with the infamous Proscriptions. Content Notes: Spoilers for Cry Havoc! Ask Questions Later SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring David K Barnes, Amani Zardoe, Dr. Emma Southon…

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Backstage! #18 - Making Murder Funny 32:34

2y ago32:34

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Things are heating up in Rome as murder, mayham, and malcontent run rampant. This week we look at how to find the humor in the macabre. Content Notes: Spoiler for Episodes 16 and 18 SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring David K Barnes, Grace Knight, Rob Vale…

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Backstage! #17 - Meet the Multi-Rolers 27:54

2y ago27:54

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This week, we analyze the many talents of our voiceactors playing multiple parts in one production. Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Ryan Hopevere Anderson, Karim Kronfli, Tom Crowley, and Lowri Ann Davies Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann Davi…

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Backstage! #16 - Writing the Triumvirs 35:54

2y ago35:54

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This week, we chat with writer Grace Knight and creator David K Barnes about writing the Triumvirs and their particular fictional flavours Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring David K Barnes and Grace Knight Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann Davies…

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Backstage! #15 - Meet the Actors, Part 3 18:44

2y ago18:44

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This week, we continue getting to know the cast. This time we discuss listeing to your own work, the differences from the start to the end of the series, and the difficult parts of recording Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lara Sawalha, …

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Backstage! #14 - Sex and Orgies 29:25

2y ago29:25

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In this spicy behind the scenes, we talk with Amani and David about the historical and political context of orgies in Ancient Rome and the practical difficulties of desgining "the orgy episode" Content Notes: Discussions of sex and sexuality SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & A…

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Backstage! #13 - Writing Historical Fiction 26:24

2y ago26:24

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This week we chat with Sarah Shachat and David K Barnes to talk about writing historical fiction Content Notes: Discussions of: Historical medical procedures, homophobia, misogyny, classism Mentions of: Covid-19 pandemic, quarantine, spiders, transphobia, sexual abuse, enslavement SFX: Crowds, beeps Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Da…

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Backstage! #12 - Directing 27:52

2y ago27:52

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This week Lowri and Amani discuss directing such a large and in depth series Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies and Amani Zardoe Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann Davies Sound Designer - Lowri Ann Davies and Catherine Rinella Mas…

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Backstage! #11 - Writing Pirates 35:13

2y ago35:13

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This week, we sit in with David K. Barnes, Octavia Bray, and Tom Crowley to discuss the making of the Pirate Arc! Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, David K Barnes, Tom Crowley and Octavia Bray Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann …

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Backstage! #10 - Meet the Actors, Part 2 20:02

2y ago20:02

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This week, we hear a selection of cast members talk about the dream roles, the challenges of working in the audio medium, and what they love about their characters Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lara Sawalha, Sarah Lambie, Andy Secombe,…

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Backstage! #9 - Editing Perspective 27:56

2y ago27:56

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Join the Lowri Katie and Cathy team for a peak into the specific challenges of editing together a large cast and sound design project like Cry Havoc! Content Notes ● SFX: Crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, Katie Seaton and Catherine Rinella D…

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Announcement: 2023 Holiday News from Rusty Towers 7:34

2y ago7:34

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This announcement from CEO Alexander J Newall includes RQ Network shows to check out, a review of RQ Originals, including the brand new Neon Inkwell and the now fully released Cry Havoc! Ask Questions Later, as well as a summary of the exciting new merchandise partnerships from this year (in case you need some last minute gifts!) There is also a Sp…

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Backstage! #8 - Creating a Cast 23:39

2y ago23:39

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We took a long time making sure we had just the right talent to bring Rome to life, April and Amani talk about the process! Content Notes ● SFX: Crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, Amani Zardoe, and April Sumner Dialogue Editor – Lowri Ann Dav…

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Backstage! #7 - The Music of Rome 28:44

2y ago28:44

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Cry Havoc! Ask Questions Later is our first scored project, sit with us in a chat with the composer Sam Jones and director Amani Zardoe to hear how it happens! Content Notes ● SFX: Crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, Amani Zardoe, and Sam Jone…

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Backstage! #6 - Roman Theatre 34:52

2y ago34:52

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Today we dicuss the real drama of Roman history: the theatre Content Notes: Discussions of: Historical Sexism Mentions of: slavery SFX: Crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, David K Barnes, Rafaella Marcus, Dr Emma Southon Dialogue Editor – Lowr…

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Backstage! #5 - Cults and Religion 31:42

2y ago31:42

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Today we dicuss cults and the history of religions in Ancient Rome, in particular Mithras! Content Notes: Cults & Rituals Alcohol & Alcohol Use Knives Discussions of: Human Sacrifice, fraternities SFX: Crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lowri Ann Davies, David…

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Backstage! #4 - Gladitorial Games 36:31

2y ago36:31

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Today we continue chatting with Dr. Emma Southon about the history of Rome, in this case the famous entertainment of Gladitorial competition Content Notes: Murder Violence & Injury Enslavement Dehumanising Animal Cruelty Disscusions of: Weaponry, inc. knives, swords, javelins, enslavement, prisoners of war, death, blood, suicide Mentions of: Execut…

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Backstage! #3 - Write Your Story! Ask a Historian Later 28:18

2y ago28:18

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Today we meet Dr. Emma Southon, a brilliant historical consultant, and every historical audio drama needs a brilliant historical consultant. Even if those audio dramas then go on to take occasional liberties with the facts provided.... Content Notes: Discussions of: Alcohol Mentions of: Murder, political corruption, food SFX: Crowds Directed by Ama…

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Backstage! #2 - Meet the Actors: Part 1 19:15

2y ago19:15

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This week, we hear a selection of cast members talk about the dream roles, the challenges of working in the audio medium, and what they love about their characters Content Notes: SFX: crowds Directed by Amani Zardoe Produced by Lowri Ann Davies Executive Producers Alexander J Newall & April Sumner Featuring Lara Sawalha, Sarah Lambie, Andy Secombe,…