Best How To Satisfy My Partner Podcasts (2025)

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S13 Ep. 4: Chem Sex Parties, the "Ick," and Premature Ejaculation 19:28

1h ago19:28

19:28

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m intrigued to know what happens at a chem sex party. I’ve got a few adventurous girlfriends and we’re all quite keen to give it a try. Would you advise it? 2) I know it’s normal to go through periods when you don’t find your partner attractive. But when should you wor…

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S13 Ep. 3: "Facials," Orgasms without Vibrators, and Asexuality 22:07

6d ago22:07

22:07

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve just started seeing a guy who is really into giving ‘facials.’ I’ve done it before, and don’t honestly mind, but what’s the psychology behind it? Why do so many guys like doing it, and is it degrading to agree? 2) I’ve only ever had an orgasm once without a vibrator…

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S13 Ep. 2: Sex Pests, Sex Ed for Teens, and Why Am I Reliant on Porn to Climax? 29:42

13d ago29:42

29:42

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love my husband and I’m very attracted to him. But for some reason, I have to picture a scene from porn to reach orgasm with him. I’m very much in my head when having sex in general, and find myself thinking about a million things that aren’t related to sex during it. …

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S13 Ep. 1: Practical Tips to Cure Best-Friend Sex, an Unexpected Offer, and Is Faking It OK Now? 26:23

19d ago26:23

26:23

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Kelsey recently said she faked many orgasms while married. What is the general feeling about faking it now? How do most people react when they find out their partner’s faked it? Surely men think it’s a betrayal in the relationship? 2) Help! The inevitable has happened: s…

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S12 Ep. 10: Hotwife Fantasies, Making a 30-Year Marriage Non-Monogamous, and Sex Acts We've Never Done But Would Love To 29:26

3M ago29:26

29:26

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My wife and I communicate well about sex, but lately I’ve become extremely turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with a stranger. I think it’s called ‘hotwifing.’ It’s just a fantasy, and I’m not sure how I’d feel if we acted on it. Usually, anytime we have a…

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S12 Ep. 9: Cross-Dressing, Painful Sex, and How to Speed Him Up 23:34

3M ago23:34

23:34

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a 24-year-old woman and have never enjoyed sex because it hurts. I’ve been checked out by my doctor and there doesn’t seem to be anything anatomically wrong, but sex is never pleasant for me. Can you help? 2) I’m a 36-year-old man and have been secretly wearing women…

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S12 Ep. 8: Anal Sex, Older Lovers, and How to Stop Being Distracted During Sex 15:15

3M ago15:15

15:15

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I like having sex with my partner, but get so easily distracted. One minute I'm into it, the next I'm worrying about something or spend the whole session thinking, 'Don't forget to do this or that' afterwards. It interferes with my enjoyment. How do I turn off my busy br…

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S12 Ep. 7: Sexual Confidence, Starter Sex Toys, and Why Did He Change with Her and Not Me? 22:10

3M ago22:10

22:10

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 38, have been single for a long time, and haven’t had sex in ages. I’ve now met someone and I’m panicking about having sex with him. I enjoyed sex when I was younger, but now feel like a sexual novice. It’s affecting my confidence and stopping me from enjoying the ex…

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S12 Ep. 6: Fantasizing to Spice Up Married Sex, Eye Gazing, and Why Can’t He See My Affair as a Positive Thing? 15:23

3M ago15:23

15:23

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Is it wrong to fantasize about another person when you are in bed with your partner? I’ve been married for a very long time and—as you both talk about often—we feel more like friends than lovers. To make sex more arousing, I often fantasize about a woman at work who I mi…

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S12 Ep. 5: Sex Dreams, Video Sex, and Wobbly Erections 17:18

4M ago17:18

17:18

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I get on well with my boss, but don’t find him attractive in any way. The other night, I had an extremely hot explicit dream about him, and it’s made me feel uncomfortable. Does it mean I secretly want to sleep with him? I often have odd sex dreams. Can you stop yourself…

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S12 Ep. 4: I'm Not Attracted to My Overweight Wife, He Hates My 'Trick,' and Why Can't I Orgasm with Her? 22:01

4M ago22:01

22:01

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I am a straight man and have had a few long-term relationships in my life. Although I enjoy sex, I never ejaculate during intercourse. I am now 50. I can orgasm with intense fantasy and oral sex, but never during penetration. I have read about sensate focus, but are ther…

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S12 Ep. 3: Dry Spells, Sharing Fantasies, and Spanking 26:18

4M ago26:18

26:18

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My girlfriend and I seem to be going through a ‘dry spell.’ We haven’t had sex for about three months, and we used to have it weekly. Neither of us have talked about it and I feel like it’s becoming the elephant in the room. Life has been busy lately and I guess we just …

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S12 Ep. 2: Penis Sleeves, Hot Humiliation, and the Top Three Things We'd Never Do in Bed 25:34

4M ago25:34

25:34

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I have some questions for each of you, rather than one of my own. Tracey, you’re always talking about the right things to do in bed but what about the wrong things? What are the top three things both of you would never do In bed? 2) What do penis sleeves feel like for wo…

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S12 Ep. 1: Marathon Sex, the Best Vibe for Over-50s, and Male Body Image 25:19

5M ago25:19

25:19

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a 50-year-old woman and new to sex toys. I’ve tried a few Rabbit vibrators and find them all much too powerful and rough. Can you recommend something with a smaller, more gentle style? They all seem to advertise power as a plus, but for me it's awful! 2) I’m a 37 and…

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S11 Ep. 10: What Type of Penis Feels Best for Women, Are Most Men Silent During Sex, and Why Does She Need Different Things Each Time She Climaxes? 15:48

6M ago15:48

15:48

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Why do women need different things to orgasm each time? Just when I think I’ve got it all figured out and found the spot that makes my wife orgasm, she moves the goalposts. It seems to change every time. Is this true, or am I imagining it? 2) Which feels better for women…

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S11 Ep. 9: Face-sitting, Painful Sex, and Tips to Make a BJ More Enjoyable 22:52

6M ago22:52

22:52

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My question is about ‘face sitting’. My husband has asked me to try this with him, which I'm more than happy to do. But would like to know a bit more about it—especially because I'm a bigger girl and don't want to hurt him. 2) My girlfriend doesn’t love giving BJs, but w…

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S11 Ep. 8: Squirting, Additive Vibrators, and Bisexuality 25:21

6M ago25:21

25:21

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I didn’t start having good sex until my early 30s, and within a few months of dating I started squirting. Now, it’s a ridiculous amount. I can’t have sex anywhere except on a waterproof mattress cover or blanket. Sometimes just kissing my partner makes me gush slightly w…

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S11 Ep. 7: Prostate Pleasure, Nipple Biting, and I Don't Want to Watch Porn with My Wife 25:11

7M ago25:11

25:11

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My wife and I, both in our late 30s, have always enjoyed an adventurous sex life. She’s always watched porn, which leaves me cold but never bothered me. But now she wants to watch it together. I really don’t want to, and it’s causing arguments. She thinks I’m ‘weird’ and…

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S11 Ep. 6: Masturbation Surprise, Tipping Over into Orgasm, and What to Do If Facing a Sexless Future with a Wife You Love? 28:00

7M ago28:00

28:00

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve been listening to your podcast since the beginning and my question is similar to other male listeners: I'm 51, my wife is 55, and we’ve been married for 20 years. We have four kids in their older teens. Our sex life has been virtually non-existent for at least six y…

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S11 Ep. 5: Arranged Marriages, Girlfriends Who Rush Sex, and a Husband Who Won't DIY 27:24

7M ago27:24

27:24

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My girlfriend’s idea of perfect sex is both of us having orgasms as quickly as possible. Skip the foreplay, get naked, apply the lube, and get straight into intercourse. My idea of perfect sex is a bit of flirting, undressing each other, making her climax a few times dur…

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S11 Ep. 4: Midlife Erections, New Positions, and How to Know When to Leave 22:28

7M ago22:28

22:28

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) After years of having really good sex, my partner is now avoiding it. He’s 48. You always say if a man over 40 suddenly goes off sex, he’s having erection problems. I think you’re right because the last few times we did attempt sex, he couldn’t get hard. The thing is, we…

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S11 Ep. 3: Big Breasts, Weak Orgasms, and Is He Secretly Gay? 21:36

7M ago21:36

21:36

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner of four years is quite strange sexually. He seems to quite enjoy sex when I make the first move, but never initiates otherwise. He performs oral sex, but only if I insist and I can tell he doesn’t really like it. I thought he might be struggling with his sexua…

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S11 Ep. 2: Menopause and Sex, I Hate Being Polyamorous, and How to Build Sexual Confidence as a Young Man 23:03

8M ago23:03

23:03

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I'm a 50-year-old man from Amsterdam and a loyal listener to your podcast. I'm married to a wonderful 48-year-old woman, and our love and sex life is good. However, my wife has recently started worrying a lot about menopause and its effects on her body and sex drive. Cou…

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S11 Ep. 1: Revenge Sex, What's Kinky, and When are Sex Problems Not About Sex? 17:07

8M ago17:07

17:07

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m recently back in the dating game and wondering if there are generally accepted definitions of vanilla/non-vanilla? So far, I've ducked all the likes from guys who describe themselves as 'non-vanilla' in case I disappoint. I'm late 50s cis female heterosexual, I love …

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S10 Ep. 10: Penis Rings, Romantic Sex, and Female Premature Orgasms 19:15

9M ago19:15

19:15

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner is very shy when it comes to talking about sex. He found a sex compatibility quiz which we took as a way to open communication between us and the results showed we’re very in sync. In the quiz, he expressed interest in using a penis ring. But how do I know whi…

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S10 Ep. 9: Distracted Sex, Sex After Divorce, and Am I On Course to Become a Serial Cheater? 19:45

10M ago19:45

19:45

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I split with my husband of 14 years and my divorce has just come through. I’m a combination of nervous and excited. The marriage wasn’t bad, it was just boring and the sex was never good or satisfying. I’m now ready to get out there and start dating again, but I’m nervou…

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S10 Ep. 8: Shower Sex, Daily Sex, and What to Do When He Gets Stuck 19:02

10M ago19:02

19:02

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Even when I've had plenty of foreplay and I'm certain I'm turned on, when my partner first enters me it's like he's stuck for a moment. It’s like my vagina won't let him in. He’s able to ease in after a few seconds and intercourse is great after that. It doesn't hurt, bu…

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S10 Ep. 7: WFH Has Stolen My Sex Drive, Scheduled Sex, and Should I Accept My Wife’s Free Pass to Have Sex with Other People? 26:56

10M ago26:56

26:56

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My girlfriend and I went through a period of not having sex—we were so busy it got forgotten about. We made a point of having sex every Friday night—and now it’s stuck. We now ONLY have sex on Friday nights. She really likes this arrangement, but I hate having sex on a s…

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S10 Ep. 6: Male Bi-Curiosity, I Hate Long-Term Sex, and Why Doesn't My Husband Desire Me Now that I'm Slim? 24:09

10M ago24:09

24:09

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’ve lost a lot of weight using Ozempic and am delighted with how my body looks. I feel brand new and—at last—sexy and desirable. After years of complaining that I never initiate sex and accusing me of not even liking sex, I thought my husband would be pleased with my ne…

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S10 Ep. 5: Strange Sex Sounds, 'Is It In Yet?' and Dating after Divorce 20:25

10M ago20:25

20:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner makes strange noises during sex and it really puts me off. It’s like a whimpering noise—it sounds exactly like the noise my dog makes when I’ve locked her outside. I nearly burst out laughing the first time I heard it, now it’s just a turnoff. We’re four month…

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S10 Ep. 4: Dry Orgasms, Weird Sex Toys, and Same-Sex Skills 22:14

11M ago22:14

22:14

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I think my partner is faking orgasm because when he ejaculates, no semen comes out. The first time it happened, I asked him why there wasn’t much stuff. He said he didn’t know why and walked off. Since then, it happens now and then. I don’t say anything because I don’t w…

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S10 Ep. 3: BDSM Kinks, What to Do if You 'Miss' an Orgasm, and Why Can't I Move On from My Husband's Mid-Life Crisis? 23:11

11M ago23:11

23:11

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love watching BDSM porn and have a masochistic kink. My wife enjoys sex, but is pretty conservative in what she likes. I’ve told her I’d quite enjoy being tied up or spanked and she looked shocked, so I didn’t pursue it. How do I let her know I’d really like her to ind…

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S10 Ep. 2: He Wants to Open Up Our Relationship, the Link Between Oral Sex and Cancer, and Can Every Woman Orgasm? 25:14

11M ago25:14

25:14

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner of four years has a friend who has opened up their relationship after having been married for nine years. Apparently, it’s working well. They have ‘sex only’ relationships, stick to some rules, and say it’s made them love each other more and enjoy sex more. My…

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S10 Ep. 1: I'm 50 and My Sex Drive Has Gone, Sex in Front of a Mirror, and Tips on Handling Uncircumcised Penises! 28:20

11M ago28:20

28:20

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My partner’s favorite position is doggy-style in front of a mirror. I hate sex from behind—I like face-to-face positions so we can kiss. I also hate watching myself naked because I focus on all that’s wrong with my body and can’t enjoy myself. My partner knows this, but …

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S9 Ep. 10: My Partner Won't Give Me What I've Asked for in Bed, 'Tension Orgasms', and Why Does My Partner Prefer Porn to Sex with Me 21:44

1y ago21:44

21:44

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) When I first got together with my partner of four years, we had lots of fun tying each other up. That stopped about a year ago and I really miss it, so I asked if we could incorporate it back into our lovemaking. The very same night, I walked into the bedroom ready for b…

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S9 Ep. 9: Talking About Sex When You Haven't Had It In Years (and Years), Friends with Benefits, and How do You Know if You're Terrible in Bed? 23:50

1y ago23:50

23:50

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I feel like your inbox for this podcast is full of questions like mine. I’ve been married for 26 years, and our sex life quietly died about 10 years ago. I’ve been listening to you both and I know this is normal. What I want to find out is if my wife misses our sex, or i…

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S9 Ep. 8: Should You Stay if Your Partner Has No Interest in Making Sex Good, What to Do if He Orgasms Too Quickly, and Why Did my New Trick Backfire? 23:53

1y ago23:53

23:53

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My husband and I are each other’s first loves. We’re now twenty years on, 10 years married with a child and I feel at a loss. Our sex life is robotic and boring, once or twice a month. Same foreplay, same position. I have repeatedly suggested trying new things, but it’s …

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S9 Ep. 7: Multiple Orgasms, How to Suggest a Threesome, and 24-year-old Male Virgins 25:49

1y ago25:49

25:49

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I love sex and I love the feeling of orgasm, but I’ve never been able to have more than one. Are all women capable of multiple orgasms, and how can I increase my chances of having one? 2) I’m a straight guy wanting to suggest a threesome with my wife of four years. She’s…

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S9 Ep. 6: Is Being Intense a Turn-Off on Dates, Antidepressants Have Wrecked my Sex Life, and Tips on Trying New Things in Bed 26:25

1y ago26:25

26:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m wondering if I’m a little full on too early on when I go on dates. I love having deep, intense conversations and hate small talk. Some men seem to love it, but one guy recently told me I was a ‘bit heavy’ and to ‘lighten up a bit.’ What’s your view on this? 2) I was …

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S9 Ep. 5: I Want to Use My Vibrator with Him, I Can't Face Sex After My Husband's Affair, and How to Make 69ers More Satisfying 22:58

1y ago22:58

22:58

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I have my best orgasms using my wand vibrator. My old boyfriend didn’t have an issue with using it in bed with us (though he was the first man I’ve ever used it with). Now, I’m with someone new—about two months in—and want to bring it up. Any hints on what to say? My pre…

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S9 Ep. 4: He Refuses to Wear a Condom for Contraception, I Can’t Enjoy Breast Play After Children, and Why Do I Watch Lesbian Porn When I’m Straight? 21:49

1y ago21:49

21:49

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I want to stop taking the Pill because it doesn’t agree with me. I’ve tried taking different types and I’m not suitable for a coil, so the obvious alternative is for my partner to wear condoms. I don’t mind condoms, but he can’t stand them and is making a huge deal of it…

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S9 Ep. 3: Does Hooking Up on a Dating App Mean You Must Have Sex, Why Are My Dreams Making Me Furious with My Husband, and Can You Reset a Sexual Fantasy? 25:10

1y ago25:10

25:10

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 40 and out here dating men again after an amicable divorce. I’ve been using dating apps and hooked up with two guys using them. I ended up having sex with both men, even though I didn’t really want to. I’m not quite sure how the dating apps work: are you obliged to h…

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S9 Ep. 2: What to Do If Someone Puts You Down About Sex, Can Women Take Viagra, and How Do I Stop Him Being Obsessed with My Orgasms? 23:25

1y ago23:25

23:25

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m a recovering alcoholic and up until 49, had never had sex sober. I’m now in a relationship (been together three years) and overall, we are both happy. The problem is we are very different types when it comes to sex. He is adventurous, I’m not (since I’ve been sober).…

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S9 Ep. 1: My Husband Wants Me to Peg Him, Why Is He Keeping Notes on Our Sex Life, and Noisy Neighbor Sex 25:38

1y ago25:38

25:38

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years. Now that our children aren't babies anymore our sex life is being resurrected from the dead and better than ever. My husband has expressed an interest in me pegging him. I'll try anything once, especially since it's…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: I Hate the Way My Husband Initiates, How Do I Know If It’s Love or Loneliness, and What to Do When It’s Him Saying No to Sex? 22:11

1y ago22:11

22:11

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) Why can’t my husband change the way he approaches me for sex? He gives me this look that makes me want to run away…it’s primal, and it doesn’t feel go…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: Emotional Affairs, How to Handle a Small Penis, and Is It Wrong to Only Want Sex When I’m Tipsy? 22:09

1+ y ago22:09

22:09

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I am having an emotional affair with one of my coworkers. I’ve been married for almost 10 years and although I know this isn’t right, it’s making me f…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: I Want Her Husband, Why Won’t She Let Me Give Her Oral Sex, and Please Explain Anal Play 20:00

1+ y ago20:00

20:00

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) You talk a lot about how most women have their orgasms through oral sex, but I’ve had more than one girlfriend push me away when I try to go down on h…

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BEST OF SEXTOK: How to Set Up a Relationship so You Talk Openly About Sex, Why am I Over-Sensitive After Orgasm, and Do I Really Have to Wear a Condom? 21:09

1+ y ago21:09

21:09

A brand-new season of SexTok will return on February 14. In the meantime, enjoy some popular episodes from the archives. In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) After a few relationships in my twenties, I have enjoyed ten years of being (voluntarily) single, but am now looking to meet someone new. I’m keen for…

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S7 Ep. 10: How Do I Initiate Sex, How to Play a Power Game, and Is My Boyfriend Fetishizing My Curves? 27:34

1+ y ago27:34

27:34

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) I’m 36 and just started a relationship with a man I really like. He’s more experienced than me—he’s had lots of relationships, and I’ve only had two long-term relationships. Because of that, I tend to leave it up to him to initiate sex and take the lead in bed. He mentio…

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S7 Ep. 9: Cervical Orgasms, I Hate Being Touched After Sex, and How Can I Be Wilder in Bed? 27:26

1+ y ago27:26

27:26

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions: 1) How do you have a cervical orgasm? I’ve heard Kelsey talk about it and I’m intrigued. How do you do it? It sounds quite full on and intense and I want to have one! 2) I’m a 36-year-old straight woman and feel like I’m a boring lover. How can I be wilder in bed? I’ve done…

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