Best ENM Podcasts (2025)

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Gratitude, Healing, and the Power of Being Thankful 44:00

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19h ago44:00

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This week’s PolySoCal conversation centered around gratitude — and it turned deeply personal fast. The group shared what they’re most thankful for in life, exploring how trauma, resilience, and identity shape the love we give and receive. Themes of healing from injury and illness, releasing grief, and supporting partners through transformation were…

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The Temu Bette Midler — With Poly! 59:36

2d ago59:36

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It's not the polyamory podcast you ordered — but it's the polyamory podcast you deserve. On this episode: Adult content creator and sex worker Poly! offers to do us, and our taxes, in an all-nude edition of "Practical Poly." (How would you know? It's audio!) But first! The 'cule responds to the news — and the diss track — from the Vatican in a very…

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When Feelings Get Complicated in the Swinger Lifestyle 48:39

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Send us a text Mizzy Bender discussed was how new couples entering the swinger lifestyle can sometimes develop feelings for other partners, which can lead to complications. The speaker emphasizes the importance of thorough communication, setting clear boundaries, and taking time to observe and learn about the lifestyle before fully engaging. For mo…

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Aging, Desire, and the Changing Shape of Intimacy 49:52

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this episode dives into the emotional landscape of aging within polyamorous and kink-friendly relationships. The group explores vulnerability, sexual confidence, physical changes, emotional safety, and the evolving experience of intimacy between partners of different ages. What starts as a discussion about sexual safety expands into honest storytel…

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Relationship Oligarchy — With Mack Lee 59:50

9d ago59:50

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It's the only polyamory podcast that will confront the truth of Teddy Ruxpin's problematic turn to the right. On this episode: Comedian and rival variety show host Mack Lee drops in for a "Unicorn Hunter Hunters" featuring your surrogate swinger grandparents. But first! The 'cule try to get their needs met in a "Poly Pyramid Scheme." And before THA…

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teaser: r/NoFap 4:39

9d ago4:39

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Matt's A Wonderful Rife, starring Matt Rife as himself in this latest holiday classic. For the full episode, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Inside the Swinger Scene with Mizzy Bender 59:46

9d ago59:46

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Send us a text Mizzy Bender is a swingers lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy influencer/ educator. She hosts lifestyle events in Rhode Island and the Northeast, and recently held a "Back to School" themed party. Mizzy discussed the challenges of managing her busy schedule and social media presence, and how she has been working on her mental health …

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r/ChatGPTNSFW 58:33

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When will my beautiful wife Laura Croft come back to me? And why did she betray me in the first place by seeing other guys before we met. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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teaser: r/Circus, r/Preppers 4:18

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Welcome to the world of Graham Platner RPG, where you must travel to the gas station on foot to get cigarettes for you and your cousin. For the full episode, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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The History and Secrets of How Lesbians Have S*x 1:32:44

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We’re cracking open the secret, censored, and wildly creative history of lesbian sex. We’re digging through ancient poems, forbidden medical texts, barroom gossip, queer zines, and the techniques they definitely didn’t teach in sex ed. Tracing sapphic desire from Sappho’s bedroom to modern queer culture and exposing just how inventive lesbians have…

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What Does Sexual Safety Mean? 40:38

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The discussion moves far beyond physical protection, delving into emotional safety — the kind of trust that allows someone to be fully vulnerable, seen, and accepted. Each guest brings a deeply personal perspective: Patty speaks about freedom of expression and emotional honesty, John reflects on being “a safe person” and the complexities of male vu…

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Swinger Lifestyle Unfiltered With Mizzy Bender 32:13

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Send us a text Mizzy Bender is a lifestyle influencer and educator who discusses various aspects of the swinging/non-monogamous lifestyle. She provides an honest, direct approach to these topics, aiming to educate and inform her audience. She is preparing for an upcoming event series and is excited about using new technology like Meta glasses to ca…

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In This House... Every Wall Is a Glory Wall — With Remodeled Love 59:57

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If you're close enough to be reading this, you're polyamorous — and you're on our podcast. On this episode: Jessica Daylover of Remodeled Love drops in for a "Practical Poly" that puts the Ohhhh in the Big Four Oh. She goes for another round, so to speak, in a synth-rich, 80s themed "Is This Poly?!" Witness our hairspray, smoke machines, and lasers…

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r/PolyCritical with Ty (@bobo_circus) 1:05:58

20d ago1:05:58

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This is an episode about defeat. The defeat of souls, of relationships, of men at their very core, by someone wearing cargo shorts. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Patty: Lessons in Love and Longevity 35:20

22d ago35:20

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In this candid interview, host Alonzo Banx sits down with Patty, a cornerstone of the PolySoCal community, for a deep and heartfelt conversation about her 31-year relationship with her husband John, their journey through polyamory, and the wisdom that only comes from decades of experience. Patty shares stories from their early days — from swinging …

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Those Unnerving Moon-Faced People — With Alex Alberto 59:35

23d ago59:35

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That unnerving moon-faced polyamory podcast that you never knew you needed — and that you probably didn't. On this episode: Author Alex Alberto returns for a extra-literary "Is This Poly?!" — with Sally Rooney's Intermezzo in for questioning. But first! Nichole shares a "Poly Mindf**k" with the whole polycule as the recipient. A lot a songs in this…

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r/LoveAfterP*rn II with Brandon Wardell 1:15:31

27d ago1:15:31

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I really wanted to tell another person about my favorite posts from r/LoveAfterP*rn and Brandon was happy to oblige. We also read the reviews for the Texas based barber chain, OnlyFades (pictured in episode art). Go listen to Brandon's show https://www.patreon.com/thebrandonjamelshow and our show on patreon every week patreon.com/mostcontroversial…

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The Queer Community Is Tearing Itself Apart (Here’s Why) ft. Taha 1:17:29

1M ago1:17:29

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Every corner of queer TikTok is on fire. Hot takes, call-out wars, and “LGB without the T” chaos, and suddenly the biggest culture war isn’t left vs. right, it’s inside our own community. We’re diving into the history of queer infighting, from Stonewall splits to homonormativity, moral panics, tender-queer discourse, and why assimilation vs. libera…

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Is Poly Kinky? — Where Love, Labels, and Laughter Collide 35:00

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One of the most spirited PolySoCal roundtables yet, exploring the question: Do you have to be kinky to be poly? and Isn’t poly just swinging, anyway? What begins as a lighthearted discussion quickly evolves into a candid exploration of love, sex, and self-definition. With a full cast including Max, Patty, Cupcake, John, Noah, and Heather, the conve…

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teaser: r/nonmonogamy, r/ENM 4:47

30d ago4:47

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Who said gay meth sex couldn't be fun for straight couples in their late 50s to early 60s? Probably a lot of people, and this post proved it. For the full episode, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Get in the Boat, Loser, I'm Jennifer Coolidge! — With Joe John Sanchez III 59:54

1M ago59:54

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The #1 polyamory podcast (by a metrics of puns per minute, inscrutable references, and loud pants). On this episode: Occasionally all-nude comic Joe John Sanchez III returns for a "Unicorn Hunter Hunters" that takes place mainly on a murder boat. But first! The 'cule extends an "Invitation to Love" to a couple for the very first time, asking, "Is t…

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r/SexPositive 1:01:26

1M ago1:01:26

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Do I want to have sex? The answer is positive. Is my bisexual girlfriend betraying me with her sexual history, the answer is also positive. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Feeling Secure — Building Safety and Trust in Poly Relationships 44:38

1M ago44:38

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In Episode 18, Alonzo Banx brings together a familiar and lively panel — Heather, Cookie, Noah, Blake, and Lana — for a deep, candid conversation about what it really means to feel secure in polyamory. The discussion explores how love languages, trust, and communication shape emotional safety, and how security isn’t static — it’s something partners…

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Why speaking up changes everything! 44:58

1M ago44:58

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for w…

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Sexy Vulcan Jesus 59:59

1M ago59:59

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OMG, everyone is polyamorous and everybody has a podcast. Sorry. On this episode: Our inaugural "Beef Up the Beef" segment produces a banger (and mash). Whatcha think about that, huh, Multiamory? Nichole puts the "poly" in "polycystic" on a special ER-themed "Crazy Sexy Poly." And the 'cule asks for MORE JAZZ in the dating profile on "Invitation to…

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r/BDSMAdvice VI 1:03:25

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In this episode, we learn about the BDSM council, and how to not get strangled to death in the woods by your platonic friend. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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The Bisexual Man’s Field Guide to Dating Men ft. Mark and Bobby Box 1:31:58

1M ago1:31:58

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You’re bi (or gay), and honestly? You’ve got no idea what to do with your hands. We got you. Sex columnist Bobby Box and bi icon Mark Erenberg join us for a crash course in gay sex 101. From flirting with men and building confidence to actually being good in bed. We’re talking imposter syndrome, gay panic, and the do’s and don’ts of bottoming… all …

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New Relationship Energy — The High, the Hurt, and the Balance 39:57

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The PolySoCal crew dives deep into the electric, chaotic, and beautiful phenomenon known as New Relationship Energy (NRE) — that intoxicating rush when a new connection begins. Hosted by Alonzo Banx with Heather, Noah, Max, and Cupcake, the conversation explores how to recognize, manage, and sustain relationships when NRE hits hard. From emotional …

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Let Us Eat Your Éclair Filling — With Joe John Sanchez III 58:19

1M ago58:19

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It's a turd! It's a brain! It's a polyamory podcast! Sort of! On this episode: Comedian Joe John Sanchez III — one of the few superior sequels — drops in to ask and answer, "Monogamy RUOK?" But first, the 'cule acts all smart and sh*t after a night at the theater, discussing Noël Coward's "Design for Living" for "Is This Poly?!" And that's it. No t…

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She’s Gotta Have It — and So Do We 37:38

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Send us a text Ben and Lauren kick off this week’s episode with a few spicy tales from her latest swinger shenanigans at a lifestyle resort- because why ease in when you can dive right in? It’s late October, which means it’s officially Swinger Christmas (aka Halloween), so the party-talk begins. From there, they turn their attention to She’s Gotta …

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teaser: r/StonerFood 4:25

2M ago4:25

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Featuring: the $3 rice and bone meal deal, peanut butter rice, bisexual erasure, shredded cheese covered in olive oil, and our ideas for new weed packaging. Here's a link to the thread with all the images https://x.com/MostControPod/status/1987657922243919996?s=20 For the full episode, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversial…

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r/AJelqForYou 1:00:26

2M ago1:00:26

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Oh no, its bleeding. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Cupcake: Becoming My Authentic Self 39:40

2M ago39:40

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In this intimate and powerful one-on-one, Alonzo Banx sits down with Cupcake, one of the most loved voices of the PolySoCal community. For the first time, she shares her journey through trauma, recovery, and self-discovery — from surviving assault and toxic relationships to finding love, strength, and healing through kink, polyamory, and community.…

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Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?) 35:22

2M ago35:22

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoeb…

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The Art of Sensual Sock Sharing 58:58

2M ago58:58

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You can learn a lot from polyamory podcasts. And you can forget it all, with ours. On this episode: Nichole and Laurel finally make it official: The "Shit Daniel Does" segment, that is. The 'cule risks litigation, and nausea, by suggesting that Dr. Phil lives a secret swinger life on "Poly in Public: Invasion of Privivacy." Finally, a Stubert provi…

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teaser: r/TwoSentenceHorror 2025 Halloween Special 4:57

2M ago4:57

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I promise there's some actual two sentence horror in this episode, we were just really firing on all cylinders talking about dogs. For the full episode go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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r/ExtremeHorrorLit 1:01:43

2M ago1:01:43

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We write a spooky short story in this one just in time for Halloween. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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Is Bisexuality The Same As Pansexuality? ft. Leo And Taty 1:12:32

2M ago1:12:32

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Pansexuality: it’s not just bisexuality with extra glitter. We’re tracing its wild origins from the BDSM underground to the free love 70s to the nonbinary explosion of the 2010s, because this label has range. We’re unpacking the bi vs. pan debate, the pan pride flag’s secret meanings, and why pansexuality has always been the sexy rebel of the LGBTQ…

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What makes someone feel truly ‘part of the community 37:10

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In this heartfelt roundtable, the PolySoCal crew opens up about belonging, rejection, and what it truly means to feel part of a community. Hosted by Alonzo Banx with guests Lana, Noah, Ash, Sy, and Cupcake, this episode dives into the emotional undercurrents of inclusion — when we feel invited, when we don’t, and how our own perceptions shape that …

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Let's Pick a Fight With Multiamory! — With Mx. Dahlia Belle 59:59

2M ago59:59

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It's the polyamory podcast that doesn't know what's good for it. On this episode: the incredible Mx. Dahlia Belle returns to the pod to peak the microphones with pure chaos — first on "Ask the Amateurs," and then on a the inaugural edition of "Unicorn Hunter Hunters: Scattershot." But first! Faced with continued silence to the north, the 'cule send…

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Male Anxiety in Poly 41:14

2M ago41:14

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What does fear look like when you’re trying to love openly? In this episode, three men sit down to talk honestly about confidence, insecurity, aging, and the quiet ways anxiety shows up in polyamorous relationships. It’s not a debate or a lectureit’s a real conversation between friends who’ve lived the questions they’re asking. From feeling “replac…

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teaser: The Good Shirts 8:18

2M ago8:18

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The best shirts were lost, but now they are found. Listen to the full episode here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/r-or-how-i-to-my-141777444?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_linkBy mostcontroversial

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Keep My Dog's Name Out of Your Whore Mouth 59:04

2M ago59:04

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Psst. Looking for a polyamory podcast? Meet us in the alley. On this episode: Laurel starts off with a "Bone to Pick" and it NEVER ENDS. Seriously, this is just us talking mad sh*t for an hour, with some really fun songs. There's two, count 'em TWO, "Poly Mindf*cks," as well. But it's all part and parcel of the great big Bone to End All Bones. Open…

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r/S*xAddiction 1:05:55

2M ago1:05:55

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I cannot stop having sex, I will not stop. Also, schedule should be returning to normal soon, moving has been a headache. For weekly bonus episodes, go to patreon.com/mostcontroversialBy mostcontroversial

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You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters) 1:05:19

2M ago1:05:19

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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-…

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Types of Poly, Finding What Fits You 35:28

2M ago35:28

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Guest host Noah leads a lively and heartfelt discussion exploring the many forms of polyamory — from kitchen-table dynamics to monogamish relationships, harems of cuddle buddies, and solo poly living. The conversation opens with introductions from the full PolySoCal crew and new guests, each sharing their experiences and definitions of what “poly” …

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Lube Fairy for President — With Brett Chamberlin 58:47

2M ago58:47

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Polyamory podcasts come and go — but this one does only the former. On this episode: Brett Chamberlin, founder of OPEN (Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non-monogamy), agrees to guest on the pod, despite our strongly worded warnings of chaos muppetry. You might think it's the most practical "Practical Poly" of all time — until we start talkin…

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#26 - It's a map! - A deep dive into how to use the enneagram 50:37

2M ago50:37

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In this episode, we do a surface level deep dive into all the pieces of the enneagram. We give you a new definition of the enneagram and decide that the enneagram is just a map to lead you to yourself. We talk about wings, stress and growth arrows, instincts, triads and how you can utilize all of this information to find balance in yourself and in …

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Unlocked: r/LoveAfterPorn 1:02:56

2M ago1:02:56

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Just got my Wifi online so here's the episode that was supposed to come out Tuesday. Sorry.By mostcontroversial

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How to Join the Community, and Do It Right 41:52

3M ago41:52

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In this roundtable conversation, the PolySoCal Podcast takes on one of the most common questions newcomers ask: “How do I join the community and conduct myself properly?” Alonzo Banx is joined by Cupcake, Noah, Ash, Oslo, Heather, and Craig for an honest and sometimes raw discussion about the do’s and don’ts of entering poly and lifestyle spaces. T…