Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey. Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healt ...
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A safe space podcast hosted by Newsiebaby, who attempts to talk about news and niches in the kink community, all while keeping his pants dry (sometimes 😉). This podcast contains content only suitable for ages 18+.
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The show that unperfectly describes what it's like when life has you fucked in the head while being fucked from behind while trying to maneuver through gay sex, gay dating, gay culture, gay love, gay stereotypes, gay relationships, and most importantly, that infamous gay walk of shame while living in the beautiful city of San Francisco. Hosted by Raoni Washburn. Follow on Instagram, TikTok, Threads, and Positive+1, all @exposingmygay, and don’t forget to call & leave a message on the Bossy P ...
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Hosted by sex therapists Casey Tanner and Kamil Lewis, Safeword is sex therapy, unhinged! Because instead of being a blankslate that’s just here to support you, we are telling you the details on our own sex lives, relationships, identities and more. Each week we tackle a theme related to sex, gender, and relationships. Safeword is produced by The Expansive Group and launched following the success of @queersextherapy on Instagram and TikTok.
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#092 Think you need a partner to explore BDSM? Think again. Learn how to build skills, rituals, and confidence as a Dom or sub—solo. Avoid beginner mistakes and prep for your ideal dynamic. Ready to start your journey? Join our free Bootcamp! ➡️ Free Jumpstart Your BDSM Journey Bootcamp: https://domsubliving.com/bootcamp ➡️ Show notes and more: htt…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 11 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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58:55This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni spills the tea on what every guy that he has either dated or hooked up with unanimously says that Gingers Taste Better! The pros and cons of living life as a ginger are discussed in detail, and why Raoni thinks that gay men fetishise Gingers is revealed. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram…
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#091 “I don’t make love—I f*ck. Hard.” 📝 Get your free BDSM contract at https://domsubliving.com/contract Is Fifty Shades of Grey really that bad… or are we just mad it opened the door for millions? In this deep dive, we're breaking down what it got wrong (and very wrong), what it got right, and why it still matters. Hit play and get ready to move …
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This week, Newsie brings you a diapered twist on one of his favorite stoner JO hypnosis tracks—originally inspired by Josh Hypno 2. Blending crinkly comfort, hazy submission, and guided pleasure, this audio is made for diaper bois who love to buzz, zone out, and stroke under the influence. Whether you're lighting up or laying back, let go and sink …
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This week, Raoni steps outside of the show's norm and gets political. Raoni reveals his experience participating in the "No Kings" protest, along with the 12.5 million other individuals who stood up against the dip-shit dictator's evil on Jun 14, 2025, alongside the pathetic joke of a birthday celebration the orange cheeto tried to throw for himsel…
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#090 What if training your sub could feel more like bonding with a dragon than shouting commands? 👉 Grab the free “How to Be a Good Dom” Quick Start guide at https://domsubliving.com/dominant We're sharing real-world ways to build trust, create habits that stick, avoid common Dom mistakes, and adjust training styles for every type of sub. Strengthe…
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Newsie shares a big update about the future of the podcast and why Newsie’s Nook is officially up for rent. Find out how you can step in, share your voice, and help shape the next chapter. 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni shares his difficult, sex-filled, emotional, amazing, epic, and iconic final AIDS/LifeCycle Journey of 2025. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram TikTok Threads …
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A Look Inside Our Total Power Exchange Relationship
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18:14#089 “I don’t play submissive—I live it. Every day.” 🔥 Grab your own TPE blueprint: https://domsubliving.com/blueprint In this behind-the-scenes episode, Alesandra from Dom Sub Living shares what a real 24/7 Total Power Exchange looks like—from morning rituals and daily protocols to mistakes, resets, and the small things that keep her dynamic thriv…
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From Ripe Pamps to Real Talk: Little Crinkle’s Wand Rig and Story of Survival
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41:18This week in Newsie’s Nook, Little Crinkle shares his inventive wand rig, his passion for soggy pamps, and a powerful story of survival you won’t want to miss. 🍼 Follow Little Crinkle 🍼 How to make Little Crinkle's Wand Rig 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty Nook Resources for those experiencing Domestic Violence National Domestic Violence…
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What People Get Wrong About Total Power Exchange
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23:52#088 Does Total Power Exchange mean giving up everything—or just giving with intention? ✨ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community We're answering the top 10 questions we get asked most about TPE, from burnout and boundaries to parenting, protocol, and sex. ➡️ Join our free community: https://domsubliving.com/community ➡️ Show no…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 10 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:09:56This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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10 Taboo Kinks: Which Are Normal vs. Truly Dangerous?
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20:43#087 Are your darkest desires really that dangerous? 👉 Download the free checklist of 50 kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist We're breaking down 10 taboo kinks—from pet play to CNC to pregnancy—and ranking them from safe to seriously risky. Find out which ones are more common than you think—and which ones even seasoned kinksters get wrong. …
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Raw, Real, and Kinky: Life Behind the Power Exchange
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58:40#086 “Do you really live like that every day?” In this episode, we're sharing a special interview from the Kink Your Way podcast with Leann Herron. We talk about BDSM as a lifestyle, growing a kink business, breaking shame, and what it’s really like behind the scenes. ➡️ Check out 'Kink Your Way': https://kinkyourway.com ➡️ Explore our online cours…
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This week in the Nook, we’re slipping out of diapers and into something super cute! I’m chatting with the Chief Rugrat himself, the creator behind Rugrat Apparel, to talk undies, ABDL style, and what it takes to run a one-kiddo brand. Spoiler: the undies are so soft 😍 🍼 Follow Chief Rugrat 🍼 Check Out Rugrat Apparel 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out …
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Why Sniffies Is The Dom Top, & Grindr Is The Sub Bottom.
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48:36This week, Raoni compares the differences between the sex and dating apps from before his two years of appless monogamy in his relationship, to what they have become now, two years later, after his breakup. The crazy differences of the hook-up world, the new apps that dropped while he was off the grid, and who has surprisingly taken the crown as th…
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BDSM for ADHD and Autism: Build a Dynamic That Fits
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21:00#085 Think BDSM isn’t built for ADHD or autism? Think again. 🎁 Get free scripts, tools & aftercare tips at https://domsubliving.com/free We're sharing how neurodivergent kinksters can thrive—without masking, burning out, or giving up. Learn how to customize your dynamic, avoid ableism, and support your unique needs in kink! ➡️ Access the free Resou…
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Aussie Invasion! SydneyboyDL & JakRabbit Take Over the Nook
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40:10While Newsie is on holiday, SydneyboyDL & JakRabbit take over the Nook to talk about the Aussie ABDL scene plus an upcoming event! Make sure to stick around after for a fun story time!! 🍼 Follow SydneyboyDL 🍼 Follow JakRabbit 🍼 More Info about Diapered Land of Oz 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty Nook…
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This week, Raoni shares all the things he had to do to prepair for his sexy single slutty phase that is now in full swing. Awkward nude photo shoots, Plant obsessions, hole shaving, & rediscovering the hookup apps are all the topics covered in this week's exposé! Please donate to my AIDS LifeCycle Journey
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Soft Doms Are In—What Gentle Domination Looks Like
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14:09#084 Is it still dominance if it’s gentle? 🎁 Grab the free quick-start guide to become a better Dom: https://domsubliving.com/dominant Turns out, soft domination isn’t weakness—it’s an intentional, emotionally intelligent way to lead and surrender. In this episode, we're exploring what gentle domination really looks like, why it’s trending in the B…
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Live Loud, Wear Proud: Kidd Monstar Gets Real in the Nook
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46:13This week Newsie joins Kid Monstar in his Nook to talk about living loud and wearing proud! 🍼 Follow Kidd Monstar 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni shares his inspiring history with AIDS/LifeCycle and his incredible drive to spread awareness about this cause and all the amazing work it has achieved over the years as it comes to its final ride in 2025. All the reasons why AIDS/LifeCycle is solely responsible for Raoni embarking on his new found love for HIV/AIDS activisom is re…
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Why BDSM Works Better Than Therapy (For Some People)
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23:38#083 What if therapy isn't the only way to heal — and sometimes, it's not even the best way? 👉 Grab free resources at https://domsubliving.com/free. In this episode, we're sharing why BDSM can offer healing in ways traditional therapy sometimes can't. We cover surprising insights even therapists are exploring, the hidden harm of for-profit therapy,…
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This week Newsie is joined by Little Mason to talk about his new event, Padded in the Pines. This 21+ event is on a private campground in Southern Oregon!! 🍼 Register for Padded in the Pines 🍼 More Information on ABDL Events 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Why Ozempic Looks Good In The Mirror, But Feels Fucked Up Everywhere Else.
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42:08This week, Raoni spills all the details about his journey with Ozempic. He reveals all the pros as well as all the cons and tells you what to expect if you plan to use Ozempic in your own life. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram TikTok Thr…
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5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight
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31:48#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget? 🎁 Want step-by-step worksheets and real scene examples to put these ideas into action? Check out our “Scene Creation Mastery” (only $9!) at https://domsubliving.com/scene-creation-mastery/ In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you c…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 9 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:01:22This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni gives his complete exposé on The Sniffies hookup app and his thoughts on this new spin on gay hookup culture since he has re-emerged back nto the world of being a slut once again. Several of his first Sniffies encounters are shared in this week's exposé. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram…
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BDSM & Polyamory: Master Multiple Power Dynamics Without Drama
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11:54#081 Poly and kinky? It’s not as easy as people think. ❤️ Download the free BDSM Relationship Structure Guide at https://domsubliving.com/guide We're sharing 5 essential rules for making BDSM and polyamory work—without the drama. Learn how to define power structures, avoid jealousy, handle communication across partners, and balance multiple D/s rol…
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This week Newsie is joined by SydneyBoyDL to flex their muscles and goon out in their diapers in the Nook! 🍼 Follow SydneyBoyDL 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naught NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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Bottom Like A Boss, With The Bossy Power Bottom Ho Bag.
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33:07This week, Raoni reintroduces the infamus "Bossy Power Bottom Ho bag," with the newly revised six essential items that every bottom sould always carry around with them in their Bossy Power Bottom Ho Bag to ensure any encounter with a hot jock top at any time any where throughout one's day, is a win win for all parties involved! Follow The Raoni Was…
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AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?
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15:55#080 Would you ever take orders from an AI Dom or command an AI sub? 🎯 Want to build real D/s dynamics instead of relying on AI? Grab my free BDSM Scene Template at domsubliving.com/scene! It might sound wild, but AI is creeping into BDSM faster than you'd think. We're breaking down how people are using AI for training, control, and even aftercare—…
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This week, Newsie sits down with friend of the show to reminisce and celebrate a decade of Diaperactive! 🍼 Follow Don 🍼 Follow NewsieBaby 🍼 Check out the Naughty NookBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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What It Means To Announce A Revolving Door.
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41:05This week, Raoni drops the most significant announcement in show history that literally alters the direction of "The Raoni Washburn Show" in only the best way! Want to know more? Listen along and find out! Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram TikTok Thread…
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Dominants vs. Submissives: Who Really Has It Harder?
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17:11#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives? 🔥 Ready to level up your Dom/sub game? Check out https://domsubtraining.com We're tackling this hot topic, and it might just surprise you. We're getting into the nitty-gritty, highlighting the weight on a Dom's shoulders—like planning and managing emotions—and the trust and menta…
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We have a few guests in the Nook this week, Seadlite gives us a review of the new XXL Goodnites, Knox gives us a review of Diaper Up in Chicago, and Donkey Dope joins us to talk about braying like a donkey! 🍼 Check out Seadlite's Review 🍼 Follow Knox 🍼 Follow Donkey Dope 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni talks about his love for eating ass dispite Identifying as 100% bottom. Turning tops to get their asses eaten, the proper ass eating techneque, and why some gays refuse to eat ass are just some of the topics exposed in this week's expose! Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram T…
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#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either. 🚀 Get your free How to Be a Good Dom Quick Start Guide at https://domsubliving.com/dom Confidence isn’t about being loud or forceful—it’s about presence, control, and certainty. In this episode, you’ll learn how to command attention without overcompensating, use body language…
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Switchy & Bitchy Vol 8 feat. Noah Gold and Fancy
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1:03:21This week Newsie's friends Noah Gold and Fancy take over the Nook to host their segment, 'Switchy & Bitchy'! 🍼 More Information on NYC Takeover! 🍼 Follow Noah Gold 🍼 Follow Fancy 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni shares his official "Raoni Washburn Deep Throat Master Class." Raoni revieals his five tips and tricks that helps one get that monster cock deep down to the back of your throat and lips all the way to the base, gag free. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram TikTok …
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#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes! Want to go deeper with me on BDSM and D/s dynamics? Check out my free resources to enhance your journey: https://domsubliving.com/free Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, these in…
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It's an Aussie Takeover feat. DaddyG & Boykie
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54:21While Newsie is on vacation, DaddyG and Boykie hold down the Nook! 🍼 Follow DaddyG 🍼 Follow Boykie 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni tells the story of how he discovered the tragic loss of the Dipshit Dictator's administration's sudden silent ban on poppers via the FDA and why he believes it happened. Follow The Raoni Washburn Show on: Instagram TikTok Threads YouT…
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Bondage for Beginners & Beyond: Ideas, Tips & Mistakes
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15:57#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new. 👉 Snag a free ticket to the next summit at https://domsubdynamics.com/ Alesandra and Jay dive into the world of bondage from last year's Dom/Sub Dynamics Summit. They chat about everything from ropes and cuffs to the psychological s…
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This week Newsie becomes a bad influence after a sweet conversation with Cato and Moon becomes a huffy hold! 🍼 More Information from ABU on Pricing Update 🍼 More Information from Pretend Again Pricing Update 🍼 Follow Cato 🍼 Follow Moon 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni rates albums that have dropped in February and March by three pop devas that the gays are obsessed with. Lisa's "Alter Ego," Lady Gaga's "Mayhem," & Tate McGrae's "So Close To What" are all rated on the infamous sex scale from 1-10 by Raoni as he dissects each record and shares his likes and dislikes of each gay icon's recent work.…
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10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)
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27:50#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think! ✅ Download your free checklist of over 50 different kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist today! We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into wha…
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This week Newsie returns to Zesty Cheese Ranch with Nacho to talk about this year's Camp Crinkle! 🍼 More Information on Camp Crinkle (Password: diapers) 🍼 More Information on ABDL Events 🍼 Follow NewsieBabyBy Newsie's Nook Productions
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This week, Raoni shares the origin story of the infamous Floppy Fish Fucker from past episodes in the "My Gay Expose Podcast" era of this series. Awkwardness is the theme of this week's story as Raoni sheds some light as to why he could have possibly made a repetitive friends-with-benefits situation with someone whose sex was so bad it could only b…
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