Best Dmdd Podcasts (2025)

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First Steps After Your Child’s DMDD, ADHD, or Mental Health Diagnosis: Find Calm, Clarity, and Hope 25:36

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Finding out your child has a diagnosis like DMDD, ADHD, anxiety, or other mental health diagnosis can feel overwhelming. One moment you’re standing on steady ground, and the next it feels like the floor dropped out from under you. In this episode, I’m sharing the very first steps you can take to steady yourself, find hope, and begin building a plan…

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Episode 21: Parenting with Purpose 24:25

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🎙️ Episode 21: Parenting with Purpose Through “Sandpaper Moments” Guest: Martha B. Metzler, Therapist & Author of Sandpaper Moments Host: Matt Butterman Every parent knows the rough edges — those moments of tension, anxiety, or overwhelm when raising kids. Therapist and author Martha B. Metzler calls these “sandpaper moments,” and in her new book o…

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Episode 20: School Shootings and their Associated Trauma 20:19

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🎙️ Episode 20: School Shootings and Their Associated Trauma Guest: Nicole Beale, M.Ed., High School Counselor Host: Matt Butterman School shootings have become an all-too-frequent reality in the U.S., leaving behind not only immediate victims but also a ripple effect of collective trauma among students, parents, and educators. In this sobering epis…

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45. Explaining ADHD, DMDD, and Emotional Dysregulation So Kids Can Understand: The Race Car Brain Analogy 22:29

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Ever feel like your child’s emotions or impulses go from zero to 200 in seconds...and there’s no stopping it? You’re not alone. In this episode, I share one of my favorite tools for helping kids understand their unique wiring: the Race Car Brain analogy. It’s a simple, memorable picture you can use to explain ADHD, DMDD, or emotional intensity in a…

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44. ADHD, DMDD, Emotional Dysregulation, or Neurodivergence—If, What, When, and How to Tell Your Child 21:45

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Have you ever wrestled with the question of if, what, when, or how to talk with your child about their unique wiring or diagnosis? Maybe you’ve worried that telling them could hurt their confidence… or maybe you’ve hoped it could actually make a positive difference. Friend, you’re not alone in that tug of war. In this episode, I’ll share why these …

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Episode 19: Back to School 41:10

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🎙 Episode 19: Building Stability — Supporting Students Through Transitions and Stress Guests: Nicole Beale, M.Ed., High School Counselor Dr. Gretchen Hoyle, MD, Pediatrician Host: Matt Butterman Duration: ~50 minutes Overview: When students face instability at home, frequent school moves, or life transitions, the impact often shows up in the classr…

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43. Dealing with the Emotions of a Child’s Diagnosis—ADHD, DMDD, Anxiety, Neurodivergence and More 20:39

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Hearing that your child has ADHD, DMDD, or another form of neurodivergence can stir up a flood of emotions—sadness, worry, guilt, and maybe even some relief. You might wonder, Why am I feeling this way? Am I supposed to be stronger than this? The truth is… your emotions are normal. And learning how to walk through them is the first step toward lead…

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42. Helping Kids with ADHD, Anxiety, and Emotional Dysregulation Through Back to School Transitions: Conversations That Build Calm 20:47

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Back-to-school can be a tough transition for any child, but when ADHD, anxiety, or emotional dysregulation are in the mix, it can feel overwhelming for the whole family. The good news? You don’t need another chart or checklist—you need key conversations that build calm and connection. In this episode, I’ll share ten simple but powerful talks you ca…

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41. Back-to-School Success for ADHD or Emotionally Dysregulated Kids-- A Parent's Guide 19:48

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Back-to-school can bring excitement, but it can also bring stress...especially if your child has ADHD, anxiety, or big emotions. Early mornings, new routines, and unexpected changes can leave both kids and parents feeling overwhelmed. In this episode, we’ll talk about why transitions can be so challenging for ADHD and emotionally dysregulated kids.…

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40. What Legacy Will You Leave as a Parent? Calm, Connected Parenting That Matters 17:11

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A personal story about loss, love, and the legacy we leave as parents. Let this episode encourage you to parent with presence, peace, and purpose...starting today. What kind of legacy are you leaving… not just in life, but in your parenting? This episode comes from a deeply personal place—a month marked by loss, reflection, and a reminder that tomo…

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Episode 18: Always More - Anxiety in High Achieving Teens 36:54

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🎙 Episode 18: Always More — Anxiety in High-Achieving Teens Guest: Nicole Beale, M.Ed., High School Counselor Host: Matt Butterman Duration: ~45 minutes Overview: Today’s high school students are taking more AP courses, joining more extracurriculars, and aiming higher than ever — but it’s taking a toll. In this episode, we explore the hidden cost o…

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Episode 17: When Tantrums Go Too Far: Understanding Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) 25:52

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🎙️ Episode 17: “When Tantrums Go Too Far: Understanding Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)” Host: Matt Butterman Guest: Dr. Gretchen Hoyle, MD, Pediatrician Duration: ~35 minutes Episode Summary: Chronic irritability, frequent temper outbursts, and emotional volatility—these behaviors may go far beyond typical childhood tantrums. In this…

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Episode 16: Strategies for Parenting Children with Anxiety and OCD 24:25

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This episode explores how to help kids with anxiety and OCD by changing not their behavior—but the parent’s. Our conversation centers around Dr. Eli Lebowitz's book, Breaking Free of Child Anxiety and OCD.By Matthew Butterman

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39. Ten Effective Strategies Parents Need to Calm Emotional Dysregulation in Kids-- A Listener Favorite 32:07

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This week, we’re doing something a little different—and a little special. Life in the Kirkbride home has been full of ups and downs lately… a big family vacation, the heartbreaking loss of my beloved brother-in-law, and the joy of our son’s wedding—all in just two weeks. And now, I’ve lost my voice completely. But instead of skipping this week, we’…

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Episode 15: Intrusive Thoughts, Compulsive Actions: Understanding Pediatric OCD 26:18

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In this episode of Nimble Youth, host Matt Butterman is joined by pediatrician Dr. Gretchen Hoyle for an in-depth look at Pediatric Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD)—a condition that’s often misunderstood and underdiagnosed in children and adolescents. Together, they explore the early signs of OCD, common misconceptions, and the deeply disruptive…

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38. The Parenting Burnout No One Talks About: Trying So Hard With An Emotionally Dysregulated Child and Still Getting Nowhere 21:07

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You’re doing everything you can—books, prayers, redirection, deep breaths—and your child is still melting down, spiraling, or exploding over the smallest things. And now? You’re emotionally drained, spiritually depleted, and wondering if anything will ever work. In this episode, we’re talking about the kind of parenting burnout no one warns you abo…

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37. How One Mom Healed Her Brain with Small Movements—And Helps Emotionally Dysregulated and Sensory-Sensitive Kids Too 33:34

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What if the key to calming your child’s overwhelmed brain isn’t more discipline, more talking, or more appointments...but small, intentional movement? In this eye-opening episode, Alma Galvan shares her powerful story of healing after a traumatic brain injury and how the tiniest, most overlooked movements can actually rewire the brain and restore p…

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Episode 14 - Screens, Scores & Students: How Technology Is Transforming the Classroom 22:53

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🎙️ Episode 14 – Screens, Scores & Students: How Technology Is Transforming the Classroom Guest: Wyatt Hoyle, High School Math Teacher Host: Matt Butterman Duration: ~40 minutes Listen at: www.nimbleyouthpodcast.com 📘 Episode Summary In this insightful conversation, host Matt Butterman sits down with Wyatt Hoyle, a high school math teacher in rural …

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36. How to Support Executive Functioning During Summer: Calm, Doable Strategies That Actually Work 39:05

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Does summer break feel like more chaos than calm? If your child struggles with focus, emotional control, or follow-through—especially without the structure of school—this episode is here to help. Today I’m joined by Leslie Josel, a leading expert on executive functioning and student success. Together, we’re diving into what summer looks like for ki…

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Episode 13: The Youth Mental Health Crisis – A Therapist’s Perspective 33:12

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🎧 Episode 13 – The Youth Mental Health Crisis: A Therapist’s Perspective Host: Matt Butterman Guest: Michael Hayes, LCMHC – Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Pathways Counseling, Winston-Salem, NC Duration: ~40 minutes In this powerful and timely episode of The Nimble Youth Podcast, host Matt Butterman sits down with Michael Hayes, a licen…

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35. Why Parenting With Calm and Empathy Feels So Hard When Your Child Is Emotionally Dysregulated or Screaming 20:56

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Ever feel like you want to stay calm, respond with empathy, and be the steady one in the storm...but your child is screaming, you’re overstimulated, and you’re about to snap? You’re not alone, and there’s a reason it feels so hard. In this episode, we’re digging into what’s happening in your brain (and your child’s), and what it really takes to par…

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34. DMDD, ADHD, and Anxiety, Oh My! The Real Reasons They’re Melting Down—and What Helps 29:53

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DMDD, ADHD, and anxiety… oh my! If those letters feel like your everyday life and you’re constantly trying to decode what’s really going on behind your child’s big emotions—this episode is your roadmap. We’re breaking down what’s actually fueling those emotional explosions, how these diagnoses often overlap, and why your go-to parenting responses m…

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33. Frustrated with Meltdowns on Vacation? Top Five Hacks to Enjoy A Fun Family Vacation and Manage Emotional Dysregulation 24:26

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Does the thought of a family vacation leave you feeling more tense than excited? If you’re parenting a highly sensitive or emotionally intense child, even the idea of travel can bring up anxiety, dread, and a fear of public meltdowns. But what if you could take a vacation that builds connection while managing the emotional dysregulation—without sac…

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Episode 12: Spotting the Signs – A Pediatrician’s Frontline Role in Eating Disorders 31:31

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🎧 Episode 12: Spotting the Signs – A Pediatrician’s Frontline Role in Eating Disorders Guest: Dr. Gretchen Hoyle, MD, Pediatrician Host: Matt Butterman Duration: 30–40 minutes Eating disorders often begin quietly—but their impact is serious and, in some cases, life-threatening. In this episode, host Matt Butterman speaks with returning guest Dr. Gr…

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32. Emotional Dysregulation in Kids: 10 Effective Strategies to Help Your Child Calm Down 31:05

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CalmConnectionParent.com/resource In this episode of the Calm Connection Parenting Podcast, we’re diving into the topic of emotional dysregulation and how you can help your child manage overwhelming emotions to calm down. If you’ve ever faced the challenge of meltdowns, tantrums, or outbursts, this episode is for you. We’ll explore what emotional d…

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Episode 11: The Absenteeism Spiral 37:08

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🎧 Nimble Youth – Episode 11 “The Absenteeism Spiral: Understanding and Addressing Chronic Absenteeism” Guest: Dr. Gretchen Hoyle, Pediatrician Chronic school absenteeism is surging—and it’s not just about skipping class. In this episode, pediatrician Dr. Gretchen Hoyle joins us to unpack the many factors driving today’s absenteeism crisis. From the…

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Episode 10: A Gut Feeling - Constipation, Anxiety and ADHD in Children 30:07

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Episode 10: A Gut Feeling—Constipation, Anxiety, and ADHD in Children Guest: Dr. Gretchen Hoyle In this enlightening episode of Nimble Youth, pediatrician Dr. Gretchen Hoyle returns to tackle a topic that’s both common and frequently misunderstood: chronic constipation and stool withholding in children. What may seem like a simple digestive issue i…

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31. Emotional Support Animals: An Effective Tool for Emotional Dysregulation and Highly Sensitive Children 28:13

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What if a pet could be more than just a companion for your child? For children with heightened emotions or emotional dysregulation, pets can be a lifeline—offering more than just cuddles but playing a crucial role in helping them navigate the emotional ups and downs of everyday life. In today’s episode, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about Spa…

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30. Why Play Is Essential for Parenting Emotionally Intense, Highly Sensitive Children (Emotional Regulation… Bonus!) 38:18

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Get Your FREE Ticket to the Calm Connection Parenting Summit If your child melts down, shuts down, or struggles to find the words to explain what’s wrong—you’re not alone. And you’re not failing. In this episode, we’re joined by play expert and counselor Deborah Woods to explore how play can become one of the most powerful tools for connection—espe…

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29. Let’s Choose Less: Why Simplifying Life Helps Highly Sensitive and Emotionally Dysregulated Kids Thrive 35:17

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What if your child’s meltdowns aren’t just about behavior—but a cry for less? Less stimulation. Less pressure. Less chaos. If your sensitive or emotionally intense child seems to unravel in the hustle and overstimulation of everyday life, this episode will hit home. This week, Jami sits down with parenting coach, writer, and mom of four, Jenna Mich…

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Episode 9: Why Is My Teen Cutting? Understanding Non-Suicidal Self-Injury 30:25

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🩹 Episode 9: Understanding Cutting and Non-Suicidal Self-Injury (NSSI) in Youth Guest: Dr. Gretchen Hoyle | Host: Nimble Youth Podcast Cutting and other forms of non-suicidal self-injury (NSSI) are difficult topics for any parent or caregiver to confront—but they’re more common than many realize. In this episode, Dr. Gretchen Hoyle returns to guide…

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28- Why Kids Say Hurtful Things — And Real Strategies to Help Your Child with Overwhelm and Emotional Dysregulation--with Dr. Roseann Copanna Hodge 38:06

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Get your Calm Connection Parenting Summit FREE ticket Here! CalmConnectionParent.com/summit Have you ever stood there, stunned, wondering how those hurtful words just came flying out of your child’s mouth? You're not alone — and you're not a bad parent. Today, we’re diving into the real reasons kids lash out — and even more importantly, how you can…

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Episode 8: Collaborative Care - the Future of Mental Health Management 34:51

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If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one doing all the care coordination for your child—between doctors, therapists, teachers, and insurance companies—you’re not alone. The mental health system hasn’t always made it easy. But there’s a new model that’s starting to change that: it’s called the Psychiatric Collaborative Care Model, or Collaborative Ca…

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Episode 7: Boys, Screens, and Mental Health: Understanding the Digital Abyss 52:07

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In this powerful episode of Nimble Youth, Dr. Gretchen Hoyle returns to explore how digital media, social disconnection, and untreated mental health challenges are affecting adolescent boys. The discussion zeroes in on how behavioral changes—especially in boys who seem withdrawn, anxious, or addicted to screen time—can be early indicators of deeper…

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Episode 6: The Silent Storm: Anxiety and Depression in Adolescent Girls 37:07

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In this episode, we’re talking about a mental health crisis that is quietly, and sometimes invisibly, reshaping the lives of millions of young people—particularly adolescent girls. Anxiety and depression have been on the rise among teens for over a decade, but the numbers for girls are especially stark—and deeply concerning. Our guest today is Dr. …

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Episode 5: Anxiety in younger children 38:54

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In this episode of Nimble Youth, host Matt Butterman and pediatrician Dr. Gretchen Hoyle explore how anxiety presents in young children — often in ways that can be mistaken for defiance, avoidance, or behavioral issues. Dr. Hoyle discusses how anxiety can show up as tummy aches, refusal to go to school, or resistance to routine activities, and why …

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27- Why Is My Child So Aggressive? Insights and Solutions for Parents of Emotionally Dysregulated and Highly Sensitive Kids 23:50

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Are you struggling with a child whose anger seems to erupt out of nowhere, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed? If you're wondering, Why is my child so aggressive?—you're not alone. Today’s episode dives deep into the challenging and often heartbreaking behaviors that many parents face: aggression, meltdowns, and emotional intensity. I’m h…

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Episode 4: Medications for ADHD 47:15

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In the final installment of our three-part ADHD series, we explore the real-world challenges and decision-making processes behind ADHD medication management in children. Dr. Gretchen Hoyle returns to guide us through: 🧠 Topics Covered Medication combinations and why stimulants are often paired with alpha-2 agonists How insurance formularies influen…

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Episode 3: Continuing care for ADHD in teens and young adults 49:34

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Episode Summary: In this third episode of our special series on ADHD, we’re back with Dr. Gretchen Hoyle to explore the collaborative care model—a modern, team-based approach to managing ADHD in children. Dr. Hoyle walks us through how pediatricians, behavioral health care managers, and mental health specialists work together to provide holistic, a…

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Episode 2: Introduction to ADHD in children 44:09

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🔍 Episode Summary In this episode, we dive into what ADHD looks like in real life, how it shows up in kids at different ages, and the importance of early identification. Dr. Hoyle shares practical insights from the clinic, discusses the challenges of diagnosis, and addresses common fears—like whether treatment might change a child's personality. We…

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Episode 1: Introduction to parenting in the modern world 9:59

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Episode Summary Welcome to the very first episode of Nimble Youth—a podcast for parents navigating the complex mental health landscape of modern childhood. Host Matt Butterman introduces the mission and meaning behind the show’s title, drawn from Shakespeare’s reflection on the vitality of youth. But in today’s world, “nimbleness” is more than phys…

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26- Parenting A Child With Emotional Dysregulation—The Best Tool You’ll Find to Understand and Advocate for Their Needs-- With Holly Provan 35:41

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Show Notes: What if the anger, anxiety, or meltdowns you're seeing aren't choices—but signals from your child's brain desperately crying out for help? In this episode, we're diving deep with Holly Provan, nurse, mom, and author of Poppy and the Overactive Amygdala. Holly sheds powerful new light on why some kids experience life as a constant battle…

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25-- Intentional Parenting: Key to Managing Emotional Dysregulation and Meltdowns-- Kids ARE the Instruction Manual 38:23

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Today we welcome Debbie Simmonds, author, founder of Anchor Point, and adoptive mom of nine. After her own pain of losing quadruplets, she turned her sorrow into something incredible. She shares profound insights into parenting, resilience, and building lasting family connections. Through powerful stories from her own journey, Debbie reveals how to…

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24-- The Biggest Parenting Mistake When Handling Your Child's Emotional Dysregulation—And How to Avoid It 33:07

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Do you ever feel like your child’s emotions are a ticking time bomb, and no matter what you do, you’re the one who sets it off? It’s so easy to fall into the trap of trying to ‘fix’ things, but sometimes, our best intentions make everything worse. In this episode, we explore the #1 mistake parents make when managing their child’s big emotions—and h…

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23-- Parenting A Child with Mental Health Challenges: Navigating Emotional Dysregulation and Finding Hope 37:19

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Parenting a child with mental health struggles is not a battle anyone prepares you for. In fact, it can feel like you're fighting a war—and sometimes, you don’t even know if you're winning. I’m sharing our personal journey today and the five pitfalls that nearly every parent in this situation faces. But more importantly, I’m giving you hope: There …

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22-- How Sensory Processing Disorder Impacts Highly Sensitive and Emotionally Dysregulated Kids: Our Family's Story 34:51

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What if everything you thought you knew about parenting needed to be reimagined? When we started understanding sensory processing issues in our child, it felt like so many things clicked into place. Today, I’m sharing a deeply personal chapter of our parenting journey. As parents of a highly sensitive and emotionally intense child, we faced struggl…

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21-- When Emotional Dysregulation Affects the Whole Family: Five Keys to Help Siblings Survive and Thrive 28:18

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When your child is living with chronic emotional dysregulation, it can feel like the whole family is walking on eggshells. But what about the siblings? They’re right there in the middle, trying to process the chaos without a roadmap. What happens to them? In this episode, I’m diving into five essential keys to help your children—both the one with e…

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20-- Are Meltdowns and Emotional Dysregulation Just a Phase or Will They Last Forever? 32:20

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In today’s episode, we tackle a question that many parents of emotionally intense children ask themselves: Is this just a phase, or is this emotional intensity something we’ll have to navigate for the long haul? We dive into how emotional intensity can fluctuate with age and developmental milestones, and how it might evolve into something that stay…

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19-- Three Most Common Triggers for Emotional Dysregulation in Kids and What You Can Do to Help Find Calm 30:00

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Have you ever had parenting whiplash? You know, when your child goes from laughing to losing it in a matter of seconds? Maybe it’s because you picked the wrong-colored cup, said ‘no’ to a snack, or asked them to turn off their game—suddenly, you’re dealing with a full-on emotional eruption, and you have no idea how you got here. But what if I told …

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18-- Why Traditional Parenting Methods Don’t Work for Emotionally Dysregulated and Highly Sensitive Kids (And What Parenting Guidance Does) 27:03

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If you’ve ever thought, "Why does NOTHING work with my child?!"—you’re not alone. I used to think I had this whole parenting thing figured out, but then life threw me a curveball: a child with ADHD, mood disorder, big emotions, and challenging behaviors. And let me tell you… the traditional advice? It failed us completely. But when I made one simpl…