Best Crystal Santoría Podcasts (2025)

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Outgrow Me 5:29

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3d ago5:29

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! This episode is for every adult who has been diagnosed with ADD, ADHD, SPD, AUTISM in their adult years. Some of us have known we were different decades ago but were never seen. Some of us were so high functioning that no one noticed. When we finally take the time to be around people who actually see the di…

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Like Mother 6:33

1M ago6:33

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In a time line of dating. We have more so the men who want their dates to be like their mother. You only want the part of your mother presented to you but not her whole life in totality that you didn't see. Often compared to his mother young women tend to lay down who they are becoming to represent a person…

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Abide By Country 5:13

1M ago5:13

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! This episode delves into the south. We often get teased a lot about our southern dialect. It may sound silly to others but to us it's something to be proud of. I wanted to uplift the culture of the south. I wanted to tell a story about southern living. Be proud of the region you came from. There's a lot of …

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S.O.C.A.T. (Separation of Church & Trauma) 7:20

2M ago7:20

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we peel back the layers of why people cannot separate church from trauma. Often times people bring their trauma to church or their trauma started in a church but they cannot separate the culprit from God. It is like a man/woman of the cloth and God is one in the same. They're not! Some traum…

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Still Won't Hit 5:51

2M ago5:51

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we're discussing how the 1970s Blaxploitation era redefined the art of dating. It passed down the notion that dating is mere transactional and that if a man spends money on a date then he is owed a woman's body. Well, that doesn't get us to a lasting relationship with that mindset now does i…

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Restricted Access 6:48

2M ago6:48

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! How many many women wished they could have dated young under parental supervision? In this episode, we discuss raising teenagers especially young women. We tend to have a long leash on our young men but yet a shock collar on our young women. We expect them to choose wisely when they become adults but their …

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Toxic Lessons 5:45

3M ago5:45

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we get into emotional regulation. What sets a person off? How did you learn to self deescalate a situation? Everyone isn't raised with the tools to do so early hence why we have prisons and diversion centers filled. We all know that even the best of us weren't taught how to regulate our emot…

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Always In My Heart 6:42

3M ago6:42

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 7/7. In this episode we get into the hard part of relationships. The ending. When does does us part. How do you move on when you have more love to give? The anger you feel about the other dying without you? The pain you feel about losing the other? The guilt you feel about wasting time. It's all part of …

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Make Time For Love 5:26

4M ago5:26

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 6/7. In this episode we shed a light on empty nesters. What happens between a couple when the kids have recently left the nest? How do you refocus on each other when you don't have to set an example for someone watching you? Learning to date each other or just date when there's no excuse to fall back on …

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Feel The Fire 4:47

4M ago4:47

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 5/7. In this episode, we focus on connective intimacy. In a relationship we get so bogged down with work, chores, kids, that we forget or just plain out don't want to connect with each other. Whether it be just touch, a massage, a back rub, or sexual intimacy all of it is needed to recharge the other. I …

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Ignited by Love 4:43

4M ago4:43

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 4/7. In this episode, we talk about rekindling passion between lovers. A lot of us have passion within us but pouring into one another is where we trip up time and time again. We become too focused on "hooking up" than igniting that passion between us. Passion and seduction starts outside of the bedroom.…

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Neither One Of Us 4:53

4M ago4:53

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 3/7. In this episode, we come to a halt as most relationships do. For whatever reason, your relationship is at a stalemate. Arguments become frequently. One or both feel like they aren't being heard. When one or both try to end it but struggle to. Where do you go from here? Ask yourself is this worth fig…

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Two Occasions 4:24

5M ago4:24

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 2/7. In this episode we delve into that part of love where you're always on each other's mind. Whether it be love, lust, or concern, that someone is revolving around your center. We love that for you. Thinking without making the thought an obsession is healthy for you. Go ahead now! Paint a picture of yo…

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Finding Us 5:27

5M ago5:27

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 1/7. In this episode we start our "Love Through Stages" series. Let's take it all back to the beginning of your relationship. First dates till the making it "official" stage. How were you when it was time to get ready? Were you the one who had everything laid out or just picked out something the day of? …

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Taste of Hell 5:32

5M ago5:32

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 4/4. In this episode, we talk about the back and forth reconnections of a child with a parent battling addition. It's not our job to save them but we often grow up wanting to. Wanting to know if we're worth more than those few minutes of high. The constant reconnection can be draining. The end game isn't…

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Refined Connection 4:17

5M ago4:17

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 3. n this episode, we take you on a journey of reconnecting with parents after divorce. Sometimes the missing parent always says, "You'll know when you get older" like there's more to the story than what you physically see. The parent raising you really don't have to fill your head with anything negative…

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Trying "Peace" Again 4:32

5M ago4:32

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 2. In this episode, we take you on a journey of reconnecting after lockup. Many children have trouble reconnecting after a parent has been released from the penitentiary. It's gets harder reconnecting after your whole childhood has been missed. Where do you begin? Do you even try? Let's get into it. Tune…

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Scared To Say Hi 4:22

6M ago4:22

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 1. In this episode, we start a news series of parental alienation. This episode goes out to all of those who have been adopted and tried to reconnect with your biological parents but it didn't go as you thought it would in your head. Tune in now. Support the show…

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Becoming Eclipsed 5:04

6M ago5:04

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 3/3. In this episode, we get into the last straw. When you've exhausted all options do you divorce or stay in it. If you're staying in it what made you stay? Sometimes divorce isn't an easy decision. You think about the multiple concepts that you're saving at once. Let's get into it. Tune in Support the …

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No Roads To Goodbye 5:18

6M ago5:18

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Pt 2. In this episode of the series we get into learning things about the other spouse but you learned it in secret. What happens when we want to ask someone about something we've learned but we didn't hear it from them? Maybe you did her it from them unconsciously but not when they were awake. We toil with…

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Declassified 5:19

6M ago5:19

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Part 1 of 3. In this episode we go on a journey of one woman's thoughts in staying or divorce. We talk about the strains of being with someone who's emotionally detached and cannot verbally express their own feelings or life. Come on this journey as we go through this 3 part series. If you've ever been in t…

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Choose Wisely 6:55

7M ago6:55

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! We've seen the chaos the United States is in. Every choice has a consequence and every action has a reaction. Even idled actions not chosen has a consequence. In this episode we take a look at consequences. Not every choice has a direct consequence. You may want to get rid of one thing lawfully but forget t…

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Black Love 4:48

7M ago4:48

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! It's Black History Month! In this episode, I wanted to uplift the heritage and culture of black folk. Love can be described far more than just two people having intimate relations. Black love is all around us from sacrifice to ever memory made with children and grandchildren. Black love can be seen througho…

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Woman Within 7:25

10M ago7:25

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, We call women front and center. This piece is dedicated to any woman who needs a pep talk, an "I understand", another match lit. Being a woman is so much more than our aesthetics, vocal tonality, and body language. Being a woman is going through so many obstacles and mental blocks that men …

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Changing Faces 5:14

10M ago5:14

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we talk about adult friendships. As we age we start to really dissect and reevaluate our friendships. Some of us grow apart but do we really have to though? We talk so much about communication but drop the ball when it comes to those who were there by your side at one point in time. I'm not …

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She Never Knew Love 6:17

11M ago6:17

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we discuss the women's sect with love. A lot of women are out there who've never experienced love. They play games with it. They demand financial gain before trusting it. They try to put love in submission with the silent treatment and so many other childish tactics to mask their lack of po…

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He Never Knew Love 6:14

11M ago6:14

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we break down the men's version of love. I've talked to a lot of men about love and their first time they notice that they loved someone. Our first love could start as early as pre-k or as late as adulthood. This doesn't mean the more intimate love we all talk about but love in general. When…

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From Scratch 6:00

12M ago6:00

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! People talk about love like learning a new vocab word and saying it excessively. That doesn't mean you know how to use it properly. Often times we think we're "in love" but you never truly love someone until you "choose to love them". Marriage isn't always the good times. That what the vows prepared you for…

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Vent Free Space 5:15

12M ago5:15

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! How many of you got that one person that vents about their problems but ever solves them. It becomes a dumping ground upon your mental health but does nothing to them. Sometimes you have to put a pause on people who just vent just to vent. Tell me about your good times, accomplishments, goals, etc. If all t…

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Don't Touch The Merchandise 5:15

1y ago5:15

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Put them kids to sleep! It's time to get into Seduction 101. Let this episode seduce you but you can't touch the merchandise. Grab your partner and you know what to do. Support the showBy Crystal Santoría

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Match My Freak 5:02

1y ago5:02

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Hide your kids tonight. This episode is a call to action of finding someone who can match the freak in you. some people like to omit/lie about what all their into but when it time to pull up they backdown. Handle what you can handle and if you're an explorer then find someone who matches your kink or open t…

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Things We Never Got Over 5:14

1y ago5:14

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Too many people are walking around with things they never let go of and they're bounded by the pain. Communication gets lost in translation. We tend to punish the future dragging the past behind us. We never go to therapy for it but we punish future partners and our children for our hurt. Others can see and…

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Unbreak My Heart 8:04

1y ago8:04

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are seven stages of grief and we all go through it at different rates. Some of us take a lifetime to fill the void that that person was. Sometimes grief hits you in an instance. Anything will make you reminisce and cry. Sometimes during the process things go unsaid. People don't get told off. Sometime…

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What It Taste Like 5:16

1y ago5:16

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! The truth is always a hard pill to swallow. Often times we stay running from it. Some of us hide it because we have a lot to lose. The truth will come out and you can't always take it to your grave. Deal with it. Take your ass to therapy if you must! Take the truth in, learn from it, don't repeat it, don't …

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F*ck a Hashtag 6:24

1y ago6:24

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Nothing has changed in the hunt to gun down innocent African Americans. I'm not going to put another hashtag to a person's name as if it solidifies that that was all they were. There was much life lived before they were murdered and it's about time we started talking about that. There needs to be reform and…

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Poetry In The Black 5:36

1y ago5:36

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Over the years there have been many well known black poets. In the arts, we've had to fight to have our say. Fight to have our books published. Fight to own the rights to our words. Through all of those who fought before me I'd never want to be anything but a poet in the black. What has poetry in the blck d…

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Having Our Say! 8:07

1y ago8:07

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Everyone has a boiling point. Eventually you will say it with your chest. The truth will push out no matter how hard someone tries to stifle it. They say black Americans badger you with never forgetting that our ancestors were slaves and that we never got any reparations for that. Truths have a funny way of…

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Thought of You 6:11

1y ago6:11

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Tell me where you was when you had that thought. Yes, that kind of thought at the most inopportune time. Where you're at work, in church, court, etc and you keep thinking of that person who turned you out. Could you control where your body sent you? Did you want to? Might want to make sure there are no kids…

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No Child's Play 4:42

1y ago4:42

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Have you ever looked at the next generation and wondered where they child's play is at. Who nurtures children for adulthood? Why are these kids so consumed in video fames, streaming services, and tv? The imagination of children is fading. Role play in children are not as big as it was in the generations bef…

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Taste Your High 5:56

1y ago5:56

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! It' time to crank it up a bit so you might want to leave your kids in another room if you have them. Let's lay it all on the floor and and come explore the four seasons on 7 continents but never leave the bedroom. You down? Support the showBy Crystal Santoría

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Read the Rainbow 5:18

1+ y ago5:18

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we pay homage to Reading Rainbow and talk about banned books. There are many banned books on the public school lists across the US but many books should not be there. Books about different cultures apart from ours. Where do we draw the line? Is one race's history the only history we should k…

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Eulogy 3:10

1+ y ago3:10

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode we're sounding the alarm for everyone who's ever been judged by their pen, told to censor their art, told to stick to one genre, been a victim of plagiarism. We are the mold. We don't move to anyone's tune. Build your art and say it with your chest. Let them choke on your message. Let's get …

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Death by Division 5:42

1+ y ago5:42

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are too many wars going on across the pond. There are too many children dying as casualties of war and never getting the chance to just be. Mothers dying on cold streets. Kids losing lives in classroom. Hiding from enemy lines and although I can't be there in the natural I can be there in spirit and a…

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Last Poetic Sniper 4:37

1+ y ago4:37

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we pay homage to Avatar, The Last Airbender and flip it into the poetic version of mastering all elements of poetry. Are you ready to see a poet master erotic, trauma, teaching, and bars in one piece? Let's get into it. Support the showBy Crystal Santoría

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Woven DNA 5:39

1+ y ago5:39

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Happy Mother's Day. In this episode, I pay homage to my lineage of mothers before me. What they stood for, What some died for, What some lived for. Although everyone before me were broken in some way, their pieces shaped a whole me. I pray this piece keeps you close to your mom. If your mom is no longer her…

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Emancipated Flower 6:33

1+ y ago6:33

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we delve into foster care kids who are aging out or have aged out already. Most foster care kids don't have a village to fall back on when they age out the system. Most of them don't even have the basic necessities to be on their own so a percentage of them end up homeless or fighting to su…

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Lock & Key 4:50

1+ y ago4:50

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Ever told someone the most deepest part of you and heard it replayed by someone else? How did it make you feel? Our most destructive part of our body is our thoughts because they don't always make it to primetime and our body doesn't always act on them. Oh if we had a movie reel that replayed everything the…

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Nuke 5:25

1+ y ago5:25

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! There are too many talks about relationships, dating requirements in this day and age. Submission is more like a swear word and omission is positive to get your own way. Deception is a better way of explaining it. Why does a man need to pay a 5 course meal on the first date? Why should a woman have a joint …

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Time Machine 4:19

1+ y ago4:19

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! Ever wished you had a time machine to erase all of the bad that happened in your life? Would it make you better? Would it change you for the best? Would you have a testimony if you never faced adversity? How would you help someone close to you? Tune In. Support the show…

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Shouldn't've Had To Speak Twice 5:41

1+ y ago5:41

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You feeling this episode? Send us a text! In this episode, we dive into doctor's appointments and hospital visits. Does your doctor see you or your race? Does your doctor see you or your weight? Does your doctor see you or your age? Some doctors have bedside manners while others ticket for the filling of pockets so they say anything. Physician bias…