Every week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, we create a space where Christian married couples can rediscover joy, connection, and purpose in their relationship. Hosted by Rich and DeAnna Millentree, each episode dives into real-life challenges—like feeling emotionally distant, navigating unresolved conflicts, or reigniting laughter and intimacy—and offers practical, faith-filled advice to help you turn toward each other and toward God. Through relatable stories, biblical wisdom, and actio ...
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Feeling overwhelmed by your family's daily grind and looking for a way out? Welcome to "Dig the Well," the podcast that empowers you to build the life you deserve. Your hosts Vikki and John are top earners at Neora. Vikki is a # 1 best-selling author and John is a retired Los Angeles Police Officer. Together they’ve navigated family challenges, raised successful kids, and achieved financial freedom. In each episode of "Dig the Well," they dive deep into the strategies and mindsets that can h ...
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Dig the Well | Episode 52: Mindset = Millions, One Year of Lessons
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35:59How does a retired LAPD officer and a best-selling author transition into successful podcasters and entrepreneurs? Join us as we celebrate a milestone in episode 52 of Dig the Well, marking one year of insightful conversations with your hosts, John and Vikki Downey. Reflecting on our journey, we dive into the highs and lows of podcasting, from conq…
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Dig the Well | Episode 51: Is Self-Care Spiritual?
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41:24Ever wondered how personal challenges can be transformed into purposeful ventures? Join us for Episode 51 of "Dig the Well" as Vikki dives deep with the inspiring Zenaida "LadieZee" Martinez. From hairstylist to faith-based self-care mentor, LadieZee shares her journey of balancing a bustling career and family life, including raising three children…
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Dig the Well | Episode 50: Cops & Authors!
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54:00Ever wondered how to juggle a marriage, a side business, and the unpredictable life of a police family? Join us on this milestone episode of Dig the Well as Vikki and John Downey, dive into the art of balancing life’s complexities. This week, Vikki shares a heartfelt interview with Gina Meyer Vincent from the Exquisitely Aligned podcast, coinciding…
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Ever wondered how to turn a side hustle into a full-time adventure? Or how to navigate the dizzying world of air travel like a pro? Join us in Episode 49 of Dig the Well, where we dive deep into the art of booking flights, managing airline loyalty programs, and maximizing travel rewards, just in time for the holiday travel frenzy! Discover the ins …
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Dig the Well | Episode 48: Skeptic to Believer
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45:42Ever wondered how to pivot from a traditional business to thriving in direct sales? In episode 48 of "Dig the Well," Vikki and John Downey, dive into our entrepreneurial journey, sharing the ups and downs of our 36-year marriage intertwined with business ventures. Discover how we transitioned from brick-and-mortar struggles to the success we found …
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Dig the Well | Episode 47: Show your Face | Build your Empire!
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26:10Are you ready to embrace your entrepreneurial spirit without sacrificing family time? In Episode 47 of Dig the Well, join us as Vikki Downey takes the spotlight, sharing her inspiring journey from the Women's Business Link's Monday Afternoon Club, an initiative led by Wendy Barr. Discover how personal visibility can transform your brand in the digi…
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Our today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast we have a fantastic conversation with author and marriage advocate Meika Harmon about her brand-new book, I'm Sorry. DeAnna had to sit this one out (she wasn't feeling her best), but that didn't stop the good times from rolling (or the belly laughs) from filling the room. Meika opened up about …
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This week, Rich and DeAnna share their favorite things for Fall, cozy candles, chai lattes, board games, pumpkin pie, sweater weather, and more. But this isn't just about personal favorites; it's about how couples can use simple, seasonal joys to connect, laugh, and grow closer. With funny stories (including Rich's shower steamer fail), playful ban…
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What if your marriage could feel like friendship again—safe, connected, and filled with laughter? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna pull back the curtain on The Team, their Christ-centered marriage community designed to help couples move beyond "just fine" into real intimacy and joy. You'll hear stories from couples who've experienced transformation…
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Dig the Well | Episode 46: Master the Mic with Leisa Reid
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44:10Are you ready to transform your speaking skills into a revenue-generating powerhouse? Join us as we dive into the art of public speaking with the incredible Leisa Reid, founder of Get Speaking Gigs Now. With over 600 speaking engagements under her belt, Leisa reveals her journey from novice to expert, and how she built a thriving speaking business …
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251. Without This, Your Marriage Will Never Feel Safe or Fun
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49:59What if the real reason your marriage feels distant isn't a lack of love, but a lack of safety? In this episode, Rich and DeAnna unpack what emotional safety is—and what it isn't—and show how it becomes the foundation not just for trust and vulnerability, but for laughter, playfulness, and joy. Through real coaching stories, their own marriage expe…
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Dig the Well | Episode 45: Jumpstart your Business with Katrina Sawa
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34:54Ever wondered how books can transform your business, or why speaking engagements might be your golden ticket to success? In this riveting episode, we sit down with the dynamic Katrina Sawa, a seasoned business coach and international speaker, who spills the secrets to leveraging your message for maximum impact. Katrina shares her journey from book …
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250. Why Your Marriage Can't Survive Without a Support System (and How to Build One That Lasts)
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49:07In this episode of Growing in Marriage, Rich and DeAnna unpack why no couple can thrive in isolation and why building a support system is essential if you want your marriage to last. You'll hear examples of couples who looked perfect on the outside but crumbled in secret—and others who found strength, healing, and accountability by inviting trusted…
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Dig the Well | Episode 44: Networking Naturally
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1:02:58Ever wondered how to network without feeling like you're just another salesperson? Join us in this episode of Dig the Well as Vikki and John Downey share their secrets to genuine relationship building in business—especially for couples! We kick off with a heartwarming update: the arrival of their grandchild, Knox Daniel Henry. While Vikki enjoys ti…
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249. Don't Let Your 8-to-5 Destroy Your 'Til Death Do Us Part'
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55:28Most affairs don't start in bedrooms—they start in break rooms, chat rooms, gyms, social media spaces, etc. In this episode, we're exposing the subtle workplace habits that can quietly erode trust, intimacy, and faithfulness in your marriage. You'll learn the early warning signs you might already be crossing a line, how to set boundaries that refle…
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248. The 5 Daily Habits Every Thriving Christian Marriage Has (Does Yours?)
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46:03In this episode, Rich and DeAnna are walking you through five small, daily habits that every thriving Christian marriage has—and why skipping them could quietly chip away at your connection. You'll hear real, behind-the-scenes stories from our own marriage (sticky hot breath and all), along with practical ways to build emotional safety, deepen spir…
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Hey there, Well Diggers! Have you ever wondered if your follow-up game is holding you back in business? Join us as John and Vikki dive deep into the art of follow-up in Episode 43 of "Dig the Well." This week, Vikki shares her personal journey and the pivotal role follow-up has played in my success across various ventures, especially in direct sale…
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Dig the Well | Episode 42: Build Your Legacy
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45:03Ever wondered how to seamlessly blend family life with entrepreneurship? Or how to create a business that stands the test of time? Join us, as we dive deep into these questions in this week's episode of Dig the Well. We share our personal journey from the LAPD to entrepreneurship, revealing how our side hustle became a full-fledged family legacy. D…
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Dig the Well | Episode 41: Be the Star in your own Life with Natalia Jansen
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51:56What if you could break free from societal labels and step into the starring role of your own life? In this transformative episode of Dig the Well, I'm joined by the inspiring Natalia Jansen, a powerhouse entrepreneur and motivational speaker. Together, we dive deep into her journey from Slovakia to the U.S., where she discovered the transformative…
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Dig the Well | Episode 40: Joyful Presence with Joy Rika Miyatake
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39:54Are you curious about how to juggle multiple business ventures while staying true to your passions? In Episode 40 of the Dig the Well podcast, hosts John and Vikki Downey sit down with the dynamic Joy Rika Miyatake, a Los Angeles-based entrepreneur with a knack for diversifying income streams. From her family's rich legacy in photography to her inn…
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Ever wondered how a casual Fourth of July barbecue can become a golden opportunity for business growth? In this episode of Dig the Well, join us as we spill the beans on turning social gatherings into networking goldmines without losing the essence of genuine connection. Inspired by Dale Carnegie's timeless wisdom, we're diving deep into the art of…
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Dig the Well | Episode 38: Zap Away Stress! with Roksana Zaya
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31:42Ever wondered how light can transform your health? In Episode 38 of Dig the Well, we dive into the world of holistic wellness with Roksana Zaya, owner of the Light Therapy Lounge. Join us as Roksana reveals her groundbreaking fusion of eastern holistic practices and western science to tackle stress, sleep disorders, chronic pain, just to name a few…
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Dig the Well | Episode 37: Employee Mindset Detox!
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41:01Are You Stuck in an Employee Mindset? Ever wondered what it takes to truly think like an entrepreneur? In this episode, we dive deep into the transformative journey from an employee mindset to embracing the entrepreneurial spirit fully. Why do so many aspiring entrepreneurs struggle to break free from trading hours for dollars? We share a compellin…
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Dig the Well | Episode 36: Haggle Like a Boss
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46:58Are you ready to master the art of negotiation in both business and personal realms? Join us as we unravel the secrets to successful contract negotiations, revealing how to dodge hidden costs and secure favorable deals. Ever wondered how to handle unexpected expenses in a business renovation or the best way to negotiate car prices? Vikki kicks off …
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Dig the Well | Episode 35: Purpose Driven Outsourcing! with guest Khryzza Kelley
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45:44Ever wondered how ethical practices can transform business landscapes? In Episode 35 of Dig the Well, we have the pleasure of chatting with the inspiring Khryzza Kelley. Khryzza is not just an entrepreneur; she's a powerhouse of purpose-driven innovation! Join us as we delve into her ventures, CoWorq Group and Isla & Co., both of which are redefini…
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Dig the Well | Episode 34: Memorial Day Misunderstood
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39:05Ever wondered how Memorial Day's true meaning extends beyond barbecues and sales? Join us in Episode 34 of "Dig the Well" as we delve into the profound significance of this day, honoring the sacrifices of military and police personnel. With John's 25-year service in the LAPD, we share personal insights on the importance of remembering those who hav…
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Dig the Well | Episode 33: Business Kryptonite
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31:49Are external challenges derailing your business focus? How do tariffs and political noise impact your bottom line? Join us as we dive into the art of maintaining business momentum amidst chaos. We tackle the common pitfalls of using external factors as excuses, from tariffs to political opinions, and how they can cloud your business vision. Ever fe…
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Dig the Well | Episode 32: Wine Entrepreneur
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26:31Ever wondered what it takes to transform dormant vines into a bottle of fine wine? In Episode 32 of Dig the Well, we, chat with Nicol Duffy, the brilliant mind behind Optima Wines, right from the heart of Sonoma Valley. Nicol takes us on a journey through her fascinating entry into the wine world, alongside her husband, Mike Duffy, who founded the …
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Dig the Well | Episode 31: Innovation Matters
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36:52Ever wondered how companies like Apple and Tesla transformed their industries? Or how Netflix foresaw the streaming revolution? Join us in episode 31 of Dig the Well as Vikki and I dive into the world of innovation and entrepreneurship! Broadcasting from the enchanting Gaylord Texan Hotel, we reminisce about childhood adventures and draw parallels …
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Dig the Well | Episode 30: The Early Edge
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10:38Have you ever wondered if there's a safer, needle-free alternative to Botox and fillers? Join us in this episode of Dig the Well, as we broadcast from the beautiful Tulum, Mexico, to unveil a groundbreaking anti-aging product that could change everything! We're diving into the world of traditional treatments, discussing their risks, and introducing…
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Dig the Well | Episode 29: Networking: Yay or Nay?
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38:25Are you ready to revolutionize your networking game? In Episode 29 of Dig the Well, Vikki takes the spotlight as she and John explore the art of networking beyond the digital realm. How do traditional methods like joining chambers of commerce stack up against online platforms? What makes paid networking groups more effective than free ones? Vikki s…
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Dig the Well: Episode 28: Hospitality Hacks with Zana DeVine
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56:17Are you ready to transform your business with exceptional hospitality? In Episode 28 of Dig the Well, Vikki Downey sits down with hospitality expert Žana DeVine to uncover the secrets behind world-class service. Ever wondered why some restaurants feel like a second home while others fall flat? Žana, with her rich background in upscale hotels and re…
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Ready to revolutionize your entrepreneurial journey? Episode 27 of Dig the Well with John and Vikki Downey is packed with insights and strategies to transform your business! We asked Chatgpt what the 7 most trending questions were among business owners. Then we answered them for you! Dive into the global AI race and discover how to attract eco-cons…
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Dig the Well | Episode 26: Business Travel Hacks
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46:35Are you ready to transform your business travel game? In Episode 26 of Dig the Well, we reveal our top strategies for making travel both efficient and cost-effective. Ever wondered whether it's better to chase the cheapest airfare or stick with one airline for those coveted perks? We dive into this debate, sharing insights from my years of travel e…
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Dig the Well | Episode 25: Is Media Misinformation Real?
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41:13What happens when truth becomes a commodity? In episode 25 of Dig the Well, we tackle the slippery slope of misinformation in media and its ripple effects on personal and business decisions. Drawing from my own experiences as a former Los Angeles police officer, we share eye-opening stories of media misreporting and its consequences on public trust…
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Dig the Well | Episode 24: Sacrifice = Success
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38:59What does it really take to transform a side hustle into a thriving full-time business? In episode 24 of "Dig the Well," join us as we, dive deep into the art of sacrifice and dedication necessary for entrepreneurial success. From my days as a Los Angeles police officer to Vikki's journey as a best-selling author, we've experienced firsthand the po…
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247. Unlocking Communication Skills for Real Vulnerability & Breakthrough in Your Marriage w/ Monika Farhadi (Part 2)
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48:56This week on the podcast, we are back in the studio with our guest from last week, Monika Farhadi! We're tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recogn…
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Dig the Well | Episode 23: Luck vs. Hustle
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29:43Ever wondered if luck really plays a role in success, or if it's all about hard work and seizing the moment? Join us for Episode 23 of "Dig the Well," where we debunk the myth of luck in both business and life. We kick off by sharing our own journey from my early retirement from the LAPD to turning our side hustle into a thriving full-time venture.…
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246. Unlocking Communication Skills for Real Vulnerability & Breakthrough in Your Marriage w/ Monika Farhadi
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51:19This week on the podcast, we're diving deep into the heart of communication with Monika Farhadi! We're tackling the barriers that keep couples from truly opening up, the difference between hearing and actually listening, and how to create a safe space for vulnerability. Monika shares powerful insights on navigating difficult conversations, recogniz…
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Dig the Well | Episode 22: Want a Free Trip?
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35:43Ever wondered how you can transform a side hustle into a life-changing full-time business? Join us in this episode as we share our journey from skepticism to success, all while soaking up the sun at a beautiful resort in Tulum, Mexico. Thirteen years ago, Vikki took a chance on Neora's anti-aging product, and our lives haven't been the same since. …
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Dig the Well | Episode 21: Business on the Beaches of Tulum
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29:27Ever wondered how to blend business success with a life of travel and adventure? In Episode 21 of "Dig the Well," join us as we unravel our journey from early retirement to a life of freedom and exploration. Broadcasting from the stunning beaches of Tulum, Mexico, we share the perks of our business with Neora, a direct sales company that has awarde…
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245. Feel Closer & More Connected in Just 14 Days: Your Guide to Embrace
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20:58Feel closer and more connected to your spouse in just 14 days! This week, we're diving into Embrace—our brand-new resource designed to help couples grow closer and communicate better. We're answering the most common questions from couples who want to know what Embrace is all about and whether it's the right fit for their marriage. If you've ever fe…
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Dig the Well | Episode 20: Jesus in the Boardroom: Why Our Business Thrives with Him in Charge
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34:55How do you integrate faith into your business practices? In Episode 20 of Dig the Well, join us as we explore the powerful intersection of Christianity and entrepreneurship. We share how our faith has been a cornerstone in both our marriage and business ventures. Discover how prayer and divine guidance have led to unexpected opportunities and helpe…
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244. Respect for Him, Encouragement for Her: What Every Couple Needs to Know
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44:35In this episode, we're tackling two game-changers for a strong marriage—respect and encouragement. If you've ever felt unappreciated or like your efforts go unnoticed, you're not alone! Respect fuels a husband's confidence and leadership, while encouragement reassures a wife that she's valued and cherished. We're breaking down what this looks like …
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Dig the Well | Episode 19: Mastering the 90 Day Run
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31:03Ever wondered how to turn your side hustle into a thriving full-time business? In this episode of Dig the Well, Vikki and John reveal the secret sauce: the "90 day run." But what is it, and how can it transform your business? Join us as we delve into this intense, three-month sprint where dedication and strategy collide to yield remarkable growth. …
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243. Married & Craving Connection? Let's Talk About Feeling Emotionally Pursued
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39:13In this episode, we're talking about something every married couple craves—feeling emotionally pursued. It's easy to assume love and connection will just happen, but over time, life gets busy, routines take over, and that intentional pursuit can start to fade. So, what does it really mean to feel emotionally pursued? How can you keep that deep conn…
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Dig the Well | Episode 18: The Balancing Act: Marriage, Kids, and a Thriving Business
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1:03:30Ever wondered how to keep the spark alive in a 36-year marriage while running a business together? Join us on Dig the Well as John and Vikki Downey reveal the secrets behind their successful partnership in both love and work. In this episode, we dive deep into the art of communication and conflict resolution. Discover why listening might just be th…
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242. Young Married & Fighting Fair: Turning Conflict Into Connection with Tyler & Connie Boyd
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1:08:19In this episode, we dive into conflict resolution and forgiveness with Tyler and Connie Boyd, exploring how young married couples can navigate disagreements without letting them spiral out of control. They share personal stories of arguments they handled well (and not so well), along with practical strategies for discussing sensitive topics and mov…
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Dig the Well | Episode 17: Raising a Champion: Parenting Lessons Behind the Podium
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57:24Ever wonder how an entrepreneurial upbringing can shape an Olympic weightlifter? Join us on Dig the Well as Vikki and John dive deep into a fascinating conversation with their son, John Downey. Discover how their unique approach to parenting, with monetized chores and flexible schedules, laid the groundwork for John's journey from aspiring police o…
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241. Young Married, Let's Talk Sex: Building Romance and Connection with Tyler & Connie Boyd
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1:07:06In this episode, we get real with Tyler and Connie Boyd about sex, romance, and staying connected in the early years of marriage. From setting healthy expectations for intimacy to navigating tough topics like porn struggles and vulnerability, we cover it all. Tyler and Connie open up about their own journey—what helped them talk openly about their …
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