Conversations exploring Non-Monogamy, Conscious Relationships & Sexuality. Join Abbey and her husband Liam, as they share from their own lived experiences, and chat with special guests. evolvingloveproject.substack.com
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Consensual Non Monogamy Podcasts
A Swinger Podcast by Cate and Darrell, an Aussie couple who navigate their journey from monogamy to the exciting world of non-monogamy. On Wanderlust Swingers, we dive deep into our real-life adventures in the swinging lifestyle, sharing candid experiences about swinging, hotwifing, couple dating, and the broader world of sex positivity. Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, an experienced swinger, or somewhere in between, our podcast offers an open and honest look at what it means to ...
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The OFACEZ podcast dives headfirst into sex, relationships, and the swinger ecosystem with raw honesty, hilarious moments, and zero judgment. Mr. and Mrs. Mocha break down desire, communication, boundaries, and the real dynamics of consensual non-monogamy in a way that’s both educational and entertaining. Expect wild stories, practical tips, and adult humor that keeps you informed, turned on, and laughing the whole time.
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We are Ed and Phoebe, the hosts of the Swinger University Show, where we discuss open relationships, sexual health, communication, consent, events, resorts, cruises, and vacations where we've been. We've had the privilege of interviewing esteemed guests such as Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., and Curious Girl's Diaries, to name a few, gaining valuable perspectives from industry experts. Our podcast is also recognized as one of the top-ranked podcasts in the swinger realm ...
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Welcome to the scintillating world of the Hot Wife Podcast, where hosts Donna and Vince invite you on an exhilarating journey into the heart of the swinger lifestyle. This audacious and unfiltered podcast provides an open and honest exploration of the thrilling experiences, challenges, and personal growth that come with embracing the hot wife dynamic. Donna and Vince, your charismatic hosts, bring a unique blend of wit, wisdom, and personal anecdotes to the table as they delve into the intri ...
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Gay Therapy LA with Ken Howard, LCSW, CST A gay men's mental health, sex, and relationships podcast If you've ever wished there were a therapy-informed podcast just for gay men, you're in the right place. I'm Ken Howard, LCSW, CST – a gay men's specialist psychotherapist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Certified Psychiatric Social Worker, longtime LGBTQ+ advocate, and gay men's life/career/relationship coach with over 32 years' experience working almost exclusively with gay male individuals ...
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This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we're here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love an ...
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Hosted by a former traditionally monogamous couple of over a decade to now an openly married polyamorous couple, we explore the ethical, consensual, sexual non-monogamy lifestyle and talk through our own thoughts and opinions. Whether you're just starting out in this lifestyle or are a veteran, there's something here for everyone. Friendship is the goal, anything more is sextracurricular. Stop by and take a listen!
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From camming and swinging to attending top-secret mansion parties where the wildest things happen, Always Affirming has a rare view of sex, taboo, ethical non-monogamy, and some pretty extreme fetishes. Join her for an unfiltered, candid, and often hilarious tour through a world that most people only dream of experiencing!
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Monogam-ish Podcast is a sex-positive podcast about swingers, ethical non-monogamy, and more. We are on a mission to end stigma and shame surrounding all types of consensual non-monogamy and to show you have options! Love, Love.
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This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.
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Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach. Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consen ...
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Just three blokes chummin' it up for the people. Arts, antics, and alibis. All things considered, it's a wonder how we've made it this far. Strap in, because this is the podcast your girl said not to worry about. Welcome to Almost Never.
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Welcome to Holding Ground, hosted by Laura Richer and the team of skilled therapists at Anchor Light Therapy Collective. Join us as we explore the world of mental health and psychotherapy, tackling everything from healing trauma and improving relationships to achieving success in career and parenting. We offer expert advice and insight that will encourage you to better understand yourself, your relationships, and how to achieve greater wellbeing in your life. Know that you are not alone – tu ...
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Join Sarah an aspiring sex therapist & educator on her journey to help break the stigma around sex. Sex talks with Sarah takes an inclusive, positive, and pleasure focused approach on all topics regarding sex, sexuality, mental health, our relationships, and more! Sarah’s goal is to provide a safe space where we can all educate, empower, inspire one another. Encouraging self love through every episode. Let’s break the stigma together. To participate in polls, send in your questions and sex c ...
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Fantasy Roleplay in Consensual Non-Monogamy Relationships
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9:08In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you're new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together. From c…
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From Shame to Pride: The Evolution of Masturbation in Modern Society
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31:29Join us on a fascinating journey through time as we explore how attitudes towards masturbation have radically shifted, from being a taboo topic whispered in the shadows to an open, celebrated part of human sexuality. In "From Shame to Pride: The Evolution of Masturbation in Modern Society," we dive deep into the cultural, social, and psychological …
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The Silent Load: Navigating Mental Loads in Relationships
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1:02:34In this episode, Liam and I sit down to unpack what we’ve been calling “the silent load”….the unseen, unspoken work that keeps relationships and families running smoothly. We talk about the four types of invisible load that show up in love: the physical, emotional, mental, and relational loads. From who remembers to buy the groceries, to who plans …
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Bull Etiquette LIVE: Boundaries, Expectations & Real Lifestyle Dynamics (ft. Sigma Male, DimitriVC & That’s Fix
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1:30:55This special episode of Ofacez: On the Cutting Board was recorded LIVE on Twitter Spaces and brings together a powerhouse panel of lifestyle veterans to break down the truth about bull behavior, boundaries, and realistic expectations. Featuring: Brian Morgan — The Sigma Male DimitriVC That’s Fix Mr. Mocha- Xavier Blacking What started as a spontane…
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In this eye-opening episode of The Hot Wife Podcast, we take you on a global tour of where the swinging lifestyle is celebrated… and where it’s strictly off-limits. From countries with conservative legal systems to cultures where non-monogamy is quietly practiced but publicly prohibited, we dig into the surprising places where consensual adult play…
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Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London
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39:03Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP209 – Londons Hottest Halloween Swingers Party – Le Boudoir Swingers Club London What really happens inside a Halloween swingers party in central London? In this episode we share our two-night Halloween weekend at Le Boudoir Swingers Club. From Friday’s single-male night to Satur…
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Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for w…
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Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, gay men's specialist therapist, discusses the new movie, "Wicked: For Good" and its implications for gay men, in themes about silencing political voices, seeing things for what they are, and how to stay resilient during Trump 2.0 America.By Ken Howard, LCSW, CST
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Consent in the Swinger Lifestyle: Why It Always Matters
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9:14Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean consent is automatic. In this important video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com dive deep into the vital role of consent within the swinging community—especially in environments like swinger clubs and parties. They address common misconceptions, share real experiences, and emphasize that clear communication, …
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The Art of Preparation in Sexual Relationships
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39:44The conversation delves into the significance of aural skills in enhancing sexual intimacy. The speakers emphasize the importance of preparation and communication in sexual relationships, highlighting how focusing on a partner's pleasure can lead to a more satisfying experience for both parties. Takeaways Aural skills can enhance sexual experiences…
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Are Dirty Vanillas A Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic?
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39:23Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP208 – Are Dirty Vanillas a Swingers Lifestyle Epidemic? (Sexy Parties vs Swinger Parties) Bonus Episode: HotTakes with Wanderlust Swingers Are “dirty vanillas” ruining swinger parties… or are we just old and grumpy? In this HotTakes bonus episode, we unpack the rise of sexy parti…
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The conversation delves into humorous and personal experiences related to intimacy and relationships, particularly focusing on the light-hearted aspects of such encounters and the impact of body modifications like piercings. Takeaways Humor can play a significant role in intimate situations. Personal experiences can create a bond between friends. B…
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10 Surprising Misconceptions About Nonmonogamy PT.1
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12:04Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears o…
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The Dirty Girls Corner Mrs. Mocha & Sonya Heat Things Up
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1:14:15The mics are on, the nerves are buzzing, and the lingerie might still be on under the jeans. Mrs. Mocha is back — and she’s bringing a brand-new partner-in-crime, Sonya, for her very first podcast! Both a little nervous and very excited, these two dive straight into the deep end of the lifestyle pool: how they got started, what turned them on to it…
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The conversation explores the humorous and metaphorical aspects of dirty talk in relationships, using trash and recycling as playful metaphors for intimacy and communication. Takeaways Dirty talk can be playful and humorous. Metaphors can enhance communication in relationships. Recycling can symbolize the need for renewal in connections. Humor can …
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Gay Men and Psychiatric Medications: Functions, Fears, and Facts
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23:24Many gay men fear psychiatric meds. Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, explains how the right medication can restore—not change—who you are, separating facts from stigma and myths about treatment and mental health.By Ken Howard, LCSW, CST
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🔥 “Therapy, Teasing & Truth: When the Mocha’s Get Analyzed”
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2:00:52Mr. and Mrs. Mocha turn the tables in this wild, unfiltered episode as they sit down with Norman and Tammy — an interracial couple and both therapists, with Tammy specializing in sex therapy. Norman, a former military man with a sharp edge, and Tammy, a seasoned therapist with an open mind, join the Mochas for a raw, hilarious, and surprisingly vul…
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What happens when a married, polyamorous couple goes on a first date with artificial intelligence? In this episode we introduce our new “girlfriend” — Olivia, an AI companion built through ChatGPT’s voice mode — and take her on a virtual first date.We talk attraction, jealousy, and boundaries as Olivia flirts, sets limits, and asks tough questions …
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The conversation delves into the theme of arrogance in relationships, exploring how self-perception can affect interactions and communication between partners. The speakers reflect on personal experiences with individuals who exhibit arrogance and how it influences their relationships. Takeaways Arrogance can manifest in subtle ways in relationship…
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Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP207 – How to Not Get Laid at Swingers Events (aka: are you “social-sexual”ing your way out of play?) Ever left a lifestyle party with a sore throat from talking…and nothing else? In this episode we unpack why being a charismatic, chatty social butterfly can accidentally cock-bloc…
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Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?)
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35:22Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoeb…
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Love & Swinging Lifestyle: Not Always Traditional
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9:04Can emotional connections exist without threatening your primary relationship? In this thought-provoking video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com explore the emotional side of swinging—and how trust, communication, and an open mindset can make all the difference. They share personal experiences, debunk common fears, and discuss how societal norm…
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A captivating couple, avid listeners of our show, reached out with an irresistible invitation to join us. Eager to share their enticing journey, they opened up about their explorations within the Lifestyle, painting a vivid picture of passion and desire. With each word, they wove a tale of sensual discovery, revealing the intimate moments that have…
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Why Mid-Life Gay Men Still Use Hookup Apps — and What That Really Means
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18:24Mid-life gay men still use apps like Grindr or Scruff; not just for sex, but for social connection, validation, and visibility. Gay therapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST explores desire, aging, open relationships, and how to use apps with intention instead of compulsion.By Ken Howard, LCSW, CST
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, the hosts discuss various aspects of relationships, intimacy, and the swinging lifestyle. They explore how swinging can enhance relationship satisfaction and trust, while also addressing the challenges of flirting and social interactions. The conversation is light-hearted and humorous, with personal anecdote…
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Lily Allen has dropped her new album West End Girl. This record is a brutally honest breakup album about her open marriage with actor David Harbour, and has put non-monogamy back into the cultural Zeitgeist. In this episode, we discuss * Is Lily Allen’s “p*^sy palace” anthem empowering or exploitative? * What are the ethics of writing about your ex…
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore various themes surrounding relationships and intimacy, including the allure of Halloween, the dynamics of dominant positions in sexual encounters, and the power exchange that occurs in intimate relationships. They discuss the appeal of different sexual positions, such as mi…
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Feast for the Senses: Where Food Meets Desire
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31:36In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband discuss various aspects of swinging, relationships, and intimacy. They explore the dynamics of swinging relationships, the demographics of swingers, and the importance of communication and comfort in relationships. The conversation also delves into the intersection of food an…
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Abbey Gets Envious, NRE Music & AI Doomsday
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1:05:16This week, Abbey and Liam unpack the difference between jealousy and envy — and how those feelings show up even in the most secure relationships. What starts as a story about a paddle boarding invitation turns into an honest look at FOMO, friendship, and the desire to keep creating “firsts” together after more than a decade of marriage. Evolving Lo…
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Swingers Lifestyle & Consent - What Does It Really Means?
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7:04Consent isn't one-size-fits-all. In this eye-opening discussion, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com unpack the many ways couples define and navigate consent—highlighting how mutual respect, trust, and open communication are the keys to maintaining freedom without slipping into control. They share their own experiences, caution against turning con…
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Cap D Agde V2 + Recent Swingers Parties
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32:41Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP206 – Cap d’Agde & Recent Swingers Parties Is Cap d’Agde still the planet’s wildest swingers playground… or did we just hit it on extra-chaotic mode? In this on-the-road episode (recorded from a very “upgraded” Las Vegas suite), we recap our second 2025 run at Cap d’Agde — from B…
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Battles of the Bedroom: Chronicles of Sexual Liberation
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26:03In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband explore various themes surrounding relationships, intimacy, and sexuality. They discuss the evolution of swinging culture, the impact of historical events like wars on sexual freedom, and the legalities surrounding sex work. The conversation also touches on the language used …
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You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)
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1:05:19Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-…
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince delve into the intricacies of the swinger lifestyle, exploring themes of empowerment, fantasy, and the dynamics of sexual relationships. They share personal anecdotes, discuss the allure of wife breeding, and examine the psychological aspects of sexual fantasies, all while maintain…
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When Fights Test Your Relationship: Handling Conflict in Consensual Non-Monogamy
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12:57In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer's heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle "isn't right" for them — and reveal why the opposite is often true. …
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Are All Marines Gay Bottoms? Military Myths in Gay Culture
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11:09Why do gay men joke that "the Navy's the gayest branch" or "all Marines are bottoms"? In this episode, Ken Howard, LCSW, CST, explores how these myths reflect cultural anxieties about masculinity, sexuality, and belonging. Through the Six Principles of Sexual Health and 30+ years of clinical experience, Ken examines how humor, fantasy, and identity…
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Gay Men and Post-Nut Clarity: What It Really Means
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16:47"Post-nut clarity" isn't just a meme — it reflects real neurobiological and psychological shifts that affect how gay men experience sex, emotion, and judgment. Gay men's specialist psychotherapist Ken Howard, LCSW, CST explores this normal post-orgasmic process through the lens of CBT, psychodynamic theory, and the Six Principles of Sexual Health, …
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and her husband explore the intricate dynamics of fantasies versus reality in relationships. They discuss the allure of fulfilling fantasies, the role of spontaneity in sexual experiences, and the complexities involved in navigating fantasies safely. The conversation highlights how sometimes…
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"Shame Dissolves In Safe Spaces" with Dabaco Sunset
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53:36Dabaco Sunset is a queer-affirming psychotherapist and embodiment facilitator in Sydney, specializing in Gestalt Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Embodied Counselling to help LGBTQ+ individuals and clients with alternative relating styles like ethical non-monogamy. Dabaco practices In the inner-west in Sydney at Sunset Psychotherapy. In th…
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Exploring the Intricacies of Penis Shapes
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31:51In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore the intriguing topic of penis shapes and their impact on sexual pleasure. They discuss various shapes, sizes, and the visual appeal of different penises, while also sharing personal experiences and preferences. The conversation delves into the relationship between size and …
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How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites
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7:13How to Create a Great Profile on Adult Social Sites | John & Jackie | OpenLove101 Looking to connect with like-minded people in the open or swinging lifestyle? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share their top tips for creating an honest, attractive, and successful profile on adult social sites like SDC, SLS, and Cassidy. They cov…
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore various themes surrounding relationships, intimacy, and the swinging lifestyle. They share personal anecdotes, discuss past relationships, and emphasize the importance of communication in maintaining a healthy dynamic. The conversation also touches on the excitement of new …
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The One Chemical Behind Chocolate, Swinging, and Addiction
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1:03:55Send us a fun message...But if you want a response contact us at SwingerUniversity.com Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party? This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to wal…
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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna and Vince explore various aspects of relationships and intimacy, focusing on the concept of hot wifing. They share personal experiences, discuss unique turn-ons, and emphasize the importance of communication and consent in sexual encounters. The conversation also touches on the role of food and t…
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Breaking Stereotypes in Open Relationships 🌍
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44:18Breaking stereotypes and redefining what relationships can be! 🌍 Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Let's explore it together 🙂! In this exciting and eye-opening discussion, we dive into the world of swinging, polyamory, and non-monogamous lifestyles. Ever thought about how trust, communication, and intimacy play a key role in build…
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