Strictly anonymous is how Kathy Kay lives her infamous life as host of the Strictly Anonymous podcast where listeners share their hottest and craziest sex stories. But what stories does Kathy have of her own? Who is the lady behind the publish button? Kathy tells us about her booytcall needs and her excitement for sex in her sixties! Mentioned: NYC…

The internet is a great place to find a handjob and some casual conversation. Penny shares what brought her to Reddit to explore her sexuality, and the fun times she’s had along the way. Plus, what Showtime’s Yellowjackets showcases about the feminine urge to consume the one you love. Mentioned: April 17 - The Naked Comedy Show - https://eventbrite…

Dr. Sonya Maya does her best to not contribute to rampant sex misinformation on TikTok. The sex therapist social media star teaches people about relationships, pleasure, and seggs while also navigating her own dating goals in the public eye. The CLITician has joined a new multimedia sex education campaign: Own The Awk! Plus: Daniel pokes his head o…

Can Black men experiment with their sexuality and still be straight? Michael Beavers shares a heteroflexible story that causes some dudes he knows to say, “Pause.” This is an episode about masculinity, heterosexuality, and men being better than women at giving head. Once again, men are better than women. (Just kidding.) Mentioned: April 17 - The Na…

Michael Beavers has his struggles. But none foils him more often than keeping track of that damned hole! The Philly-based stand-up comedian laughed about sexual mishaps, threesome nervousness, and his confusion about The Naked Comedy Show. This is part one of my two-part conversation with Beavers. I had so much fun chatting with him. Don’t miss the…

My almost-ex April Anderson is on the show this week to explain the abrupt end of our 9-month situationship. Some people avoid their exes at all costs — I podcast with them. We cover the origin of our meeting during her rock bottom and how she’s overcoming the Emotional Ick with her latest romantic interest. Plus, we also hear how much money it wou…

Stephon Hightower is — allegedly — a first-ballot Hall of Fame Player™. When people hear manwhore, they think of a guy like Stephon. But is it bad for a guy to just want sex if he’s upfront, giving, and respectful in the process? Mentioned: March 14 & 15 - The Naked Comedy Show @ https://www.eventbrite.com/e/1224473837209 June 1 - PHILADELPHIA - em…

Anora won five Academy Awards on Sunday, including the coveted Best Picture Oscar. Writer-director-producer-editor Sean Baker’s sex worker tale about Ani — a Brooklyn stripper played by now-award-winning actress Mikey Madison — stole the show at the 97th Academy Awards while also raising awareness for the sex worker community. But whores have alway…

Chef Moise (Chopped) is a polyamorous, free use, man-banging lesbian. And she explains every bit and piece of that statement in this jam-packed episode. Theo Moise loves sex and exploring a kinky lifestyle. The Food Network veteran also shares a heartbreaking clarification about how TikTok commenters unjustly warp a story to fit their rageful insti…

This is not a Zachary Zane podcast episode — but it’s not a Zach-less episode. Professional Hot Guy Jonzu Jones is telling us about using Trimex to keep it up on set, his first sex party, and yes, a little tea about dating the internet’s favorite bi guy. Also, Brenna from Front Porch Swingers joins in to help with a question about BDSM in swinger s…

The People’s Tramp Felicia Rose is BACK on the show doing her best Sonja Morgan impression. After a decade of build up and tension, we finally shared a couch together — thigh-to-thigh — no long exploring, “Why didn’t we?” but now exploring the question, “Will we?” The flirt moves forward! Plus, hear about what happened with the Sonja Morgan podcast…

Noelle Perdue is into feet guys. Not into guys’ feet or having sex with foot fetishists. She is just fascinated by people’s fetishes! We discussed the preponderance of step-family porn, being homoflexible, and vore. Mentioned: February 14 - The Naked Comedy Show - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-best-stand-up-comedy-without-pants…

Maybe just don’t date DJs. I don’t know. Comedian Priya Blunts shares the story of why she left her marriage to a Russian DJ — and how a threesome with a close friend showed her she needed to get out. Has she found love in post-divorce dating? Hear us talk about the intensity of intimacy and how One Penis Policies underestimate bisexual women. Ment…

Nonbinary sex rules, according to comedian Arjun Banerjee. President Donald Trump spent his very first day in office rolling back protections for transgender Americans — just in time for Arjun to figure out what sort of gender-affirming care she wants. In and around the hot political topic of super scary trans people, Arjun and I discussed her sexu…

Molly Roden Winter published a New York Times Best Seller last year. More: A Memoir of Open Marriage shares Molly’s introduction to what would become full-blown polyamory! Years removed from writing the book, Molly Roden Winter now enjoys her marriage AND her two boyfriends in Brooklyn. We talked about adjusting to a polyamorous identity, when enou…

YouTuber Josh Pieters interviewed OnlyFans creator Lily Phillips about sleeping with 100 Men in One Day. The South African YouTube prankster tried to show viewers what goes into a massive porn production and explore the psychological impacts of that much sex for profit. Instead, he just showed his own ass. So to speak. Billy reviews the viral YouTu…

Billy answers YOUR questions about sex parties, gambling, podcasting, and changing as we enter a new year! Follow Billy! Instagram: @thebillyprocida TikTok: @TheBillyProcida Threads: @billyisprocida BlueSky: @thebillyprocida 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Money Stuff Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod PayPal/Zelle: [email protected] Do your …

Hear real sex stories written by real people in The Champagne Room Discord server, as read by lusciously voiced community member Jack! Follow Billy! Instagram: @thebillyprocida TikTok: @TheBillyProcida Threads: @billyisprocida BlueSky: @thebillyprocida 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Money Stuff Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod PayPal/Zelle: funn…

Gabby Jordan Brown knew she would never be a heterosexual comedian. She had crushes on her girl friends since she was little. But the question she keeps going back and forth on: Does she have the tolerance anymore to be attracted to Men? The Two Nosy Meerkats co-host talks about coming out of bisexual retirement — maybe she’s pansexual? — and how h…

Polyamorous Black women have a special insight into relationships and power. Comedian Frankie Benz has a lot of stories of learning how to be in relationship with herself as a solo polyamorous woman. We somehow got through one ex-husband, two fiancés, and quite a few threesomes. Plus, Billy needs to teach a speed dating class. Mentioned: December 1…

David Mills does not recognize the gay dating scene anymore. “Daddy” was not a thing because his queer elders weren’t around — because, reasons. David can’t seem to find intimacy in gay dating. And anytime he tries the apps, he’s just swiping through gaping arseholes. What’s a middle-aged gay man to do?! PLUS, Billy updates everyone on his dating l…

Matthew Broussard agrees: Masculinity is so weird. We teach Men how to be something that gives them less of a chance to find love, partnership, and sex — meanwhile the Dan Harmons of the world are cleaning up! Broussard opens up about sexual confidence, being proposed to, and how to be a decent dude on this week’s pod! Mentioned: December 13 - The …

Herpes activist Cassie Black is better known by her pseudonym Safe Slut. She fights STI stigma while showing off her hot HSV-positive body. We talked about how she ended up monogamous and why she loves talking about herpes! Mentioned: November 21 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-best-stand-up-com…

Sage Hunter talks dating on Feeld, weird swingers, Mgen testing, and interviewing her exes! Mentioned: November 21 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-best-stand-up-comedy-without-pants-in-bushwick-tickets-1070135657559 Join us for Hot Movie Night in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/disc…

Transgender punk rock didn’t really exist before Um, Jennifer? hit the scene. Eli and Fig talk about their gender identity journeys — and question Billy about his. Um, Jennifer? messes with gender the way punk messes with rock music. Enjoy this episode recorded before any of us knew the outcome of the 2024 presidential election! Mentioned: November…

Before Alexis Fawx became a veteran in the adult entertainment industry, she was an Air Force veteran coming from a humble Pennsylvania upbringing. Unlike many porn stars, Alexis Fawks prefers to date outside of the industry! We talk about how to meet a porn star — and why squirting is kind of fake — in this very fun episode! ALSO! Check your sourc…

Allison Goldberg is done with dating. She would even say she is retired! The Love Isn’t Blind host gets into it about her hit nationally-touring comedy game show and what she’s learned about dating from playing Cupid on-stage. Should women approach men? Can guys catcall women on the street? Should Billy just do a remote episode with Dan Savage? Lot…

Is comedian Allen Strickland Williams nonmonogamous or emotionally evasive? We talked about the difference between ethical nonmonogamy and simple sluttery on our most bro-y episode in some time! There’s nothing wrong with being an LA fuckboy. So long as we’re not false advertising. Mentioned: October 24 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://ww…

Dating after a divorce is a shock for someone who hasn’t dated in over 20 years. Porn director Suzanne Would — neé Suzanne Ferrari — talks about Hinge DJs and stripping in front of the camera after her divorce. Her roommate and stepson-ish co-star Josh Rivers makes a cameo to give his thoughts on Suzanne’s roster and boyfriend requirements on a jam…

How to Throw a Gangbang was left ultimately unpublished by Mashable. This episode does NOT feature the wonderful Alice Little — but it should. Follow Billy! Instagram: @thebillyprocida TikTok: @TheBillyProcida Instagram: @billyisprocida 0nlyFans: @callmebilly Money Stuff Venmo: @BillyProcida Cash App: $manwhorepod PayPal/Zelle: funnybillypro@gmail.…

Adult film star Jessica Ryan is hilarious in this one, and I’m not going to hard-sell you. If you don’t listen to this one, you’re missing out. Live your life. Squirting secrets, porn injuries, demisexuality discussion, fetish curiosities. Oh, and we talked about some stuff you might want to read just below these words. For SEO purposes, let me say…

Kevin Smith taught me a lot about sex, dating, and gender. Let me walk you through the surprising wisdom out of the View Askewniverse films! Mentioned: Share your thoughts on this week’s show in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/discord! September 26 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-be…

Chasing Amy is near and dear to my heart. When I watched Chasing Chasing Amy starring YouTuber Princess Weekes — a documentary about queer media representation — I got defensive over my man Kevin Smith. The conversations director Sav Rodgers presents are fascinating, and it’s inspiring to see Kevin Smith be so receptive to the criticism. Princess W…

YouTuber Princess Weekes is in an interracial relationship — but they can still make fun of white people together. Shockingly though, after a long history of polyamorous dating, Princess is pursuing monogamy with her boyfriend. We discuss if she misses the variety as well as queerness and body image in this amazing part one. Next week, Princess Wee…

Love on the spectrum is hard to find. Autistic comedian Laura Merli shares how her neurodivergence affects her sex and dating life, as well as the terror of not knowing what you’re doing with a woman. Autism makes dating difficult when you struggle with social cues and covert communications when you wish someone would just be straight up with you! …

Rabbi Rebecca Keren Jablonski is the hip young rabbi in town, and her upcoming book Confessions of a Female Rabbi tells you all about how she brings modernity to an old religion. Finally married herself, even Rabbi Rebecca had to trial through the New York City dating market. We talked about her religious ex who wanted her to dress sexier, a surpri…

Sexologist Chantelle Otten just wants to help people have better, healthier sex lives. But in this social media age, anyone who amasses a following from their expertise becomes a de facto ‘public figure.’ Why do I need to know who my plumber is wearing??? Chantelle prefers to keep her personal life personal. And we discuss why…without getting too p…

Caitlin V has a boyfriend! After three months of celibacy, the Good Sex YouTuber fell smitten with a man she calls a partner. “Friend? Boy?” Yuck, she says! Caitlin V also talks about nonmonogamy, sex coach thoughts, and answers listeners’ questions. Mentioned: August 22 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/965443707117 H…

Porn star Tanya Tate brought that British accent onto the podcast to discuss privacy and porn in this social media age. How does a porn star decide what to share with the fans — and what to keep for themselves. Tanya Tate celebrates her first anal scene with MILFY, a Vixen Media Group company. Follow Tanya Tate! Twitter: @tanyatate Instagram: @tany…

Dating in New York City is tough. Dating as a woman in your 30s is even tougher! Stephanie Kiser shares funny dating stories and her incredibly low standards — and she DOES have standards! But between self-centered men, dirty boy bathrooms, and sexual incompetency, Stephanie is ready for someone — truly anyone — to come respectfully talk to her at …

Former male model Mario Adrion pulls the curtain back on the male modeling industry. Mario opens up about objectification and sexual harassment from the other side of the camera — and talks about masculinity, marriage, and people pleasing! July 18 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-tickets-93562457…

Porn starlet Addis Fouche should remix the song 500 Miles into 500 Bodies. The self-proclaimed “most relatable whore on the internet” talks about her love for dumb boys and good sex! July 18 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-tickets-935624577297 Follow Addis! Instagram: @addisfouche Twitter: @addi…

Where do women get happy ending massages? Sex coach Suzannah Weiss found a place...in Spain. Weiss compares what it was like getting a tantric massage from a man versus a woman. You will not be surprised! We also discussed pleasure, gender, and sex writing in this jam-packed episode. Plus! Will Billy’s Fourth of July gig be any good? Mentioned: Jul…

Kyle Prue can teach you How to Piss Off Men! We talk about nice guys getting friendzoned and fragile male egos. Plus, Billy shares a tragic tale of hotel sex. Mentioned: The Courage to be Disliked by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga Follow Kyle Prue! Pre-order How to Piss Off Men Instagram: @kyleprue TikTok: @kyleprue Book: The Sparks: Book 1 of Fe…

Ben Yahr is recruiting YOU: Go be hot! Thirst trapper, actor, and funny man on the internet Ben Yahr talk body image, height, wedding proposals, and princess mode on this week’s show! RSVP to Hot Movie Night! https://discord.gg/QE7npWYW?event=1252117195467657216 Follow Ben Yahr! Instagram: @benyahr Twitter: @benyahr www.benyahr.com Follow Billy! In…

Do you know your Queer History? Jordan Gonsalves — from But We Loved podcast — shares what he’s learned from queer elders and discusses the divide between LGBTQ generations. The PrEP Generation of gays vs. the AIDS Panic Generation. And who is missing? The generation of LGBTQ people who did not make it. Plus, Billy talks about gender discrimination…

Polyamorous adult actress Alison Rey opens up on this week’s show — because nothing makes her wetter than intimacy. She talks about getting divorced, dating difficulties, and feeling smitten with a new boy. It’s really cute. As someone who is also glowing, it was really nice to see. Mentioned: June 14 - The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda https://www.…

Actor Jenn Harris is dating in her 40s —and she’s done with the snacks. She wants a full meal! The American Fiction star talks about growing into your sexuality, insecure men, and her love of humor. Harris’s new short film — She’s Clean, out June 5 — explores intimacy through a series of shower scenes. Mentioned: June 14 - The Naked Comedy Show @ H…

Comedian Laura High reveals the sketchy side of sperm donation and the fertility legislation she thinks needs to happen. Also, Billy did get a new air conditioner — just in case. Please donate to the cause. Mentioned: Bad Built Butch Body Our Father Follow Laura High! Instagram: @laurahigh5 TikTok: @laurahigh5 Podcast: Insemination http://laurahigh…

Comedian Laura High talks about dating after divorce and fostering a healthy relationship with her now-husband through communication, empathy, and punchlines! Billy breaks down the latest Bumble controversies and the state of online dating. Hint: It's hard. 5/17: The Naked Comedy Show @ Hacienda - https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-naked-comedy-show-…