How Not to Suck at Divorce is the divorce podcast for people who want clarity, strategy, and support—not drama, shame, or sugarcoating. Hosted by powerhouse family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill, head of family law at the largest firm in the country, and comedian-turned-marketing-guru Andrea Rappaport, this show helps you avoid the most common (and costly) divorce mistakes while protecting your kids, your finances, and your sanity. How Not to Suck at Divorce offers you divorce guidance that o ...
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183. When the Kids Aren't With You For Christmas (Divorce Support)
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27:26Support and survival tools for one of the hardest days of divorce. “When the house is quiet, the feelings are loud.” If you’re facing Christmas (or any holiday) without your kids, this episode is your survival guide. Andrea Rappaport and Morgan Stogsdill talk about one of the most painful parts of divorce: the first (or early) holidays when your ch…
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182. Surviving Christmas When You Want a Divorce
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29:43Why the holidays amplify doubts. What to do instead of panicking. If you're overwhelmed, exhausted, pretending you’re fine, or Googling “How to pretend I'm not miserable in my marriage and ruin Christmas?” this conversation is exactly what you need. December hits differently when your marriage feels heavy. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divo…
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181. Not Ready to File for Divorce? What to Do Instead
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31:46How to prepare, protect yourself, and move forward without rushing This episode is especially helpful if you’re searching for: How to prepare for divorce without filing Emotional separation before divorce How to survive the holidays before divorce What is a silent divorce? How to tell your spouse you want a divorce (but not yet) Divorce timing stra…
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180. The Most Powerful Divorce Negotiation Tool You’re Not Using
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41:25Why strategy, not emotion, wins negotiations. Emotions don’t win in divorce court — facts and strategy do. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, divorce attorney Morgan Stogsdill and comedian-turned-divorce-advocate Andrea Rappaport walk you through how to negotiate your divorce like a pro using their THINK framework: T – Take the emotion …
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179. Hard Truths About Divorce No One Warns You About
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35:50Hard truths that can save you time, money, and sanity. If you want the real truth about divorce, buckle up. In this episode, Andrea and Morgan deliver the unfiltered, uncomfortable, absolutely-necessary truths your lawyer wishes you understood…but might be too afraid to say directly. From how the legal system really works to why your expectations a…
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178. How Asking ‘WHY’ Can Change Your Divorce
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42:07Making better decisions by understanding what really matters. If you’re in the middle of a divorce and constantly asking yourself “WHY is this happening?”, this episode is about to save you money, misery, and a whole lot of emotional tailspinning. This week, Andrea and Morgan dive deep into the question that can either move your divorce forward—or …
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177. The Co-Parenting Secret That Changes Everything
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41:34How one shift can reduce conflict and protect your kids. If the idea of “healthy co-parenting” makes you want to throw your phone, this episode is for you. Comedian Andrea Rappaport and powerhouse family law attorney Morgan Stogsdill sit down with co-parenting expert and bestselling author Jon Bassford, JD, MBA, CAE, whose real-life story of turnin…
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176. How the SUCK Acronym Changes Your Divorce
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36:30A simple framework for smarter decisions when emotions run high This week, Morgan and Andrea flip the script and want you to SUCK at divorce. Yep, you read that right. Learn how to Set aside your feelings, Utilize experts, Calm your nervous system, and Know the facts: a game-changing framework that’ll help you make better decisions (and fewer expen…
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175. The 3 Biggest Divorce Mistakes People Make at the End
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38:52Why the finish line is the most dangerous phase You’re almost done… which is exactly when smart people make expensive mistakes. In this punchy, practical episode, Andrea and Morgan tackle “divorce senioritis”, that end-of-process urge to rush, stop reading, or pick last-minute fights, and lay out the three biggest mistakes people make in the final …
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174. The 3 Biggest Mistakes in the First 30 Days of Divorce
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33:46What to avoid before emotions derail your case The first 30 days of divorce can feel like a tornado: unpredictable, emotional, and expensive if you’re not careful. In this episode, hosts Andrea Rappaport (comedian + marketing guru) and Morgan L. Stogsdill (family law powerhouse) share the top three mistakes people make in the early days of divorce,…
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173. What to Tell Your Divorce Attorney vs. Your Friends
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43:43Why mixing emotional support with legal strategy can hurt your case When divorce gets messy, who gets the details, your best friend or your lawyer? Comedian Andrea Rappaport and family-law powerhouse Morgan L. Stogsdill break down exactly what belongs in your attorney’s inbox (strategy, facts, timelines, negotiations) and what belongs at brunch (fe…
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What you need to know before negotiations begin. Money talk can make anyone want to hide under a blanket (or a naked sweater 👀), but dividing assets during divorce doesn’t have to send you into a panic spiral. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, comedian Andrea Rappaport and powerhouse attorney Morgan Stogsdill break down the financial s…
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171. Not Living in Limbo: How to Take Your Life Back During Divorce
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42:36Practical steps to move forward even when the case isn’t over. Do you feel like your life is on pause until your divorce is finalized? You’re not alone, but you don’t have to wait for papers, court dates, or signatures to start moving forward. In this candid (and hilarious) episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, comedian Andrea Rappaport and top fa…
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170. The Emotional Divorce Support You Didn't Know You Needed
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39:33In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and Morgan Stogsdill get into the often-overlooked connection between divorce and grief. Divorce can intensify feelings of loss, loneliness, and emotional pain, making it crucial to find healthy coping mechanisms, community support, and tools for personal growth. The hosts explore why …
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169. Divorce Advice From Celebrity Attorneys and Judges
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59:07When you’re in the middle of a divorce, one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make is hiring the right attorney. In this powerhouse episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, hosts Andrea Rappaport (comedian) and Morgan Stogsdill (head of family law at the largest firm in the U.S.) sit down in Los Angeles with celebrity divorce attorneys and …
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168. How to Make Your Divorce Case a Priority With Your Attorney
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48:07Do you want your lawyer to actually call you back, explain the plan, and move your case forward? It’s not magic...it’s how you communicate and collaborate. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and Morgan break down what puts you on your divorce attorney’s priority list (and what lands you on the “not today” pile). You’ll hear real …
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167. What No-Fault Divorce Really Means for Affairs, Money, and Custody
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38:23When an affair is part of your divorce story, it can feel like there’s no justice...especially in a no-fault state. In this candid, funny-but-serious conversation, Andrea and Morgan break down what you can control: your money, your mindset, and your parenting decisions. They explain how dissipation (spending marital funds on a third party) might ma…
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167. Should You Get Divorced or Stay in Your Marriage?
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45:59How to decide without letting fear or pressure drive the choice When you’re stuck wondering if you should stay married or finally move forward with a divorce, the decision feels impossible. In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea and Morgan get real about how to weigh your options—emotionally and practically—so you can stop spinning i…
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166. Navigating School Politics, Communication, and Mom Drama for Divorcing/Divorced Parents
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49:09Let’s face it—back to school hits different when you’re divorced… and especially when you’re the one stuck writing 40 thank-you notes from a six-year-old who can barely write his name. In this episode, Andrea and Morgan are tackling two of the most unhinged yet relatable parenting hurdles: 🎁 Kid birthday party etiquette (aka the gift spiral from he…
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165. Crucial Action Steps When Divorcing an Abusive Partner (And a Story That Will Help You Understand Cohersive Control)
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52:48Andrea and Morgan talk with Laura Richards, host of That’s Where I’m At podcast, about navigating divorce when abuse is part of the marriage. Laura shares her story of leaving a relationship that looked perfect from the outside but was filled with covert control, manipulation, and emotional harm behind closed doors. Alongside Laura’s experience, An…
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164. Pre Divorce Action Steps For Leaving An Abusive Marriage (And a Personal Story That Inspired a Blockbuster Movie)
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44:06Abuse doesn’t always leave visible scars. If you’re in a marriage where your every move is controlled; whether it’s how you spend money, where you go, or who you see, you may be experiencing abuse without realizing it. In this episode, we’re giving you the 3 critical steps to take before you leave an abusive marriage, straight from a divorce lawyer…
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163. The Smartest Way to Tell Your Spouse You Want a Divorce
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46:02Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see h…
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162. What the #1 Divorce Podcast Wants You to Know
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26:54In today's episode, Andrea sits down (sans Morgan! She's out of the country!) to drop some real talk about the hard truths of divorce that no one wants to hear...but everyone needs to. From AI misinformation to expensive attorney mistakes, high-conflict communication, and the emotional fallout of lost friendships, this episode delivers clarity and …
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161. How to Use Chat GPT in Your Divorce and How NOT to Use it
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40:29AI might be your late-night bestie, but should it be your divorce attorney? In this candid and insightful episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Morgan and Andrea welcome back crowd-favorite and former FBI agent Steven Bradley aka the Tech Cowboy to bust myths, deliver tough truths, and provide essential clarity around using AI like ChatGPT during …
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160. Preparing for Divorce/Custody Battle- What to Ask Your Attorney, How to Prep..
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57:26In this powerhouse episode, Andrea and Morgan welcome powerhouse attorney and metaphysical strategist Mia Poppe to help listeners emotionally and mentally prepare for the courtroom. Mia shares her toolkit for staying grounded during the most difficult moments of divorce—especially when “divorce psychosis” sets in. This raw, honest, and practical ep…
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